What do you consider cheating on your spouse?
This was a debate over a couple of beer the other night …
I have friends that frequent topless bars, although I personally consider them a waste of money and effort.
Anyway, we all had a different idea of cheating … one said that any involvement, even not physical, is enough, another said that everything but actual sex is allowable (and his wife agreed), another guy said that touching/watching (topless bar style) is ok.
What do you think is the line ?
- Intech Lancer Junior Golf Set, (Right-Handed, Age 8 to 12, 17.5 degree Driver, 4/5 Hybrid Iron, Wide Sole 7 and 9 irons, Junior Putter, Deluxe Stand Bag) User Reviews Send this to a friend Intech Lancer Junior Golf Set, (Right-Handed, Age 8 to 12, 17.5 degree Driver, 4/5 Hybrid Iron, Wide Sole 7 and 9 irons, Junior Putter, Deluxe Stand Bag) Manufacturer: INTECH Customer Rating: List Price: $89.99 Sale Price: $89.95 Availibility: Usually ships in 24......
- Saturday Lotto AU 4million Tracking through the NSW Lotto recent results, some quite extreme situations have occured in the patterns analysed. The sum totals have been difficult to predict, as there were 3 games in a row where the smallest number was 19, 20, 21 consecutively, this had not occured for 135 draws. The......
- Is elbow injury considered "tennis elbow"? I weight train regularly from 2-3 time a week. The injury occurred when I was using of those fitness wheels ( wheel with a handle bar on each side) and on the first rep my right elbow (primary arm) seized up with stiffness and pain. I'm only 22...could my injury......
- DOW JONES Index Fibonacci Review This week we look at the chart for The Dow Jones Index as our example of using the Fibonacci series. Most Stock market technical analysts/traders commonly use tools such as Fibonacci & Gann analysis methods as part of their investment strategy, as they prove useful in showing points of high......
- Start Investing P2P Lending I have been investing in p2p lending on Prosper since July 06. I consider it an alternative asset class and orthgonal to the stock market. I am regularly asked if someone should invest in p2p lending... I think the answer is a loud and clear yes! But before you rush......
- The Most Popular NBA Teams by Twitter and Facebook Fans [/caption] We all know that the NBA has been pushing Twitter like it nobody’s business for the past season and a half. And the popularity of facebook speaks for itself. So are the days of monitoring “which NBA team sells the most jersey’s” behind us? Have sports, particularly basketball, fully......
- Magnetic Tennis Elbow Brace For several years, magnetic therapy has been used in our country, as well as in other countries. There have been accounts of great results. The magnetic tennis elbow brace is only one of these therapy devices. Why does magnetic therapy seem to work? There are electromagnetic fields in the body,......
Tagged with: bar style • cheating on your spouse • cheating spouse • Money 97 • topless bar • topless bars • waste of money
Filed under: Infidelity Warning Signs
Like this post? Subscribe to my RSS feed and get loads more!
I think you can go as far as your WIFE thinks it’s not cheating. I could have sex with hundreds of other women and in my mind still be faithful to my wife, what I do with my body is my business. LOL. So once again, it’s as far as she lets me go.
sex kissing anything sexual that normal friends wouldnt doo.
The line is whatever the couple decided it is
I guess the rules of engagment are to the discretion of the couple. For us, any touching that causes pleasure is considered cheating as well has "emotional affairs."
Getting caught.
Cheating is not that complicated to figure out.
Its when the person is making an effort to involve themselves with another person outside of the relationship.
even THINKING ABOUT or CONSIDERING cheating on your spouse is enough.
Gosh, now people want to draw the line at just before sex? What the hell is this world coming to?
Anything that you have to hide/sneak from your spouse is cheating.
My fiancee and I have a line that we both agree up on. the real act of cheating is cheating it self. However when one puts themselves in a situation where cheating could arise on purpose that to me is cheating. I now things come up and you can’t avoid not getting in a situation like that but if you intentionally put yourself in that situation then your heart isn’t with me and that’s what I see as cheating.
What are you a mamas boy?
Who doesnt love to see some nice tits and get ya d rubbed.
They are practically the backbone to this nations economy.
Marriage is a failed institution and we all know that. Lets be honest. Single is the way to go.
Everyone is going to have a different answer for this. But simply put, if you’re doing something intimate with another person, and you wouldn’t tell your spouse about it, you’re cheating.
Add - Ok, now I want to cheat with Dr Dekay! LOL
Cheating is about breaking the rules.
The rules of the relationship are set by >mutual agreement< of the people in the relationship.
It is fairly astonishing how many couples never bother to actually tell each other what they expect nor what freedoms they want.
I personally encourage my wife to have fun with the strippers and enjoy the show.
Most couples are fine with playful flirting.
Some couples have strict no-friends-of-the-opposite-sex rules while others swing and yet other have a boyfriend/girlfriend on the side (not lying about it).
screwing, sucking, touching, blowing, licking, humping, rubbing, titillating, pie-eating, flashing, glory holes, and tweaking.
**add for Element: Vegas Baby
Any kind of physical or emotional intimacy that should be between us only. Our rule is that if we wouldn’t want our spouse to see it, it’s wrong.
I think anything that you feel compelled to lie about is cheating. Anything that you withhold to hold from the relationship (secret e-mail accounts, money, etc) is cheating.
The worst form of cheating that perhaps most people are guilty of is emotional cheating. That is having feelings for someone else. It hurts so much to look in your mate’s eyes and see that he/she still harbors love for their ex.
Relationships are tough. REALLY tough.
Touching from the waist down.
Anything you wouldn’t willingly tell your spouse about is probably cheating.
Each couple has to decide for themselves where their boundaries are.
anything you dont want your girl to find out about is cheating. its not about sex..its about trust.for example: if shes ok with u going to a titty bar fine..other wise get a girl that doesn’t care if that’s what u want…
Full blown physical and/or emotional affair. A kiss is forgivable, but there would be hell to pay lol. Topless bars, flirting, even to some extent sexting is acceptable, as long as it was casual and nothing serious. But if any of the above became too excessive, it would be a problem that would need to be resolved.
personally, my perception of cheating is doing something you wouldn’t do in front of your spouse, whether it be going to a topless bar, cyberchatting or visiting porn sites. Just my opinion.
Whenever he or she does anything with another and they do not tell the spouse and have to lie about.
Anything sexual or romantic with another person. Could be kissing, sex, romantic conversations, flirting, hugs, strip bars… Me and my Husband both consider all of those cheating. We’re committed to one another, and I dont think there’s a need for someone else to part-take in emotions and physical actions that should be between us.
All depends on your partner’s feelings honestly. Different people have different levels of permission they give in those situations. It’s circumstantial and there’s no one solid answer for it.
For me, I’d be ok with my girlfriend making out with another girl, but not another man.
It’s a double standard, yes, but that’s what makes it a complicated question.
If you’re doing anything that you wouldn’t do with just a friend (assuming its NOT friends with benefits), then it’s cheating…
If you do something that you feel like you have to hide from your partner, its cheating…
Excessive flirting is cheating…
That’s what i consider. I realize EVERYONE flirts a little, even when they don’t realize it, but come on, there’s a line.
However, if my boyfriend went to a titty bar with other friends, or a bachelor party or something, I don’t consider that cheating (not saying it wouldn’t make me jealous, lol). HOWEVER, if he went by himself, then yes that’s cheating.
There is physical cheating, like obviously kissing and being sexually intimate.
There is emotional cheating, like talking nasty with someone in person or online regarding sexual content that should only be reserved for your spouse.
Then there is lust, such as looking at those topless girls or stippers, or even lusting after a hot person that happens to not be your spouse in the grocery store. Something that we are all guilty of.
The line for MY marriage (to each their own), my husband and I don’t attend strip clubs or topless places. We are all for sex stores and stuff for each other instead. Just because we are made to lust after other people, in my opinion and for MY marriage, does not make it okay for my husband or myself to visit a strip club or topless bar. It would not contribute to a healthy realtionship in my opinion.
I can guarantee that the couple that said everything but sex is allowable is more likely to cheat than my husband and I, because they feel that they can tolerate someone else to fulfill their sexual desires besides one another (like a lap dance from a stripper). On the other hand, my husband and I do that and more to eacho ther and are totally fulfilled sexually. We don’t need someone else to excite us. Three’s a crowd.
Just my thoughts.
Couples participate in Swinging Clubs - so to me there is no such thing as cheating. Humans are sexual beings - religion is based on a book of fairy tales - so I see no reason to not enjoy sex as much as possible