Why do spouses refer to cheating as a mistake they made when they are caught?
Seriously my wife said the same thing
I just don’t get it I’m sorry their are some mistakes you just don’t make
I know it seems extreme but I relate it so the President of the United States ordering a nuclear launch on another country and then realizing it was a mistake and just expect the country to accept Opps I made a Mistake as a reason
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I agree. It’s not a mistake when a person chooses the behavior regardless of the consequences. They only say that when they get caught, never before.
The only mistake is getting caught. A cheater will be more careful next time.
Hi David,
Well, it is better that they refer to it as a mistake than an affair, in my opinion for obvious reasons. Mistake implies that there was wrong doing done by the spouse. Affair is just some event or happening.
Regardless what cheating spouses call it, it is still truly the most hurtful and devastating thing you can do to another human-being. Especially, if there was no wrong doing on their behalf, and the spouse just selfishly cheats.
Wish people would just understand that.
Cause they got caught.
what else can she say. oh I’m so sorry. what she should say is
i got caught. you killed my fun. but they weill never say that.
most of them blame there husband. for there cheating.
.i agree its a bs reason and not one anyone should accept
Your right cheating is wrong. How could it be a mistake. Its an excuse they use nothing more.
BECAUSE they are bloody stupid that’s why. It’s also a way of saying in a back handed manner that they have never done it before, this was a one off. I tend to agree with you, if your married or even just in a serious relationship then there are some mistakes you go out of your way NOT TO MAKE !!
If you don’t love someone anymore, and I don’t mean to sound frivolous, then have the decency to tell the other partner. People should ask themselves how would they feel if it were done to them - not very nice that’s for sure.
Things sometimes do go wrong in marriage etc, but first those involved should try and work it out and certainly not cheat, it never solves anything anyway, in fact it probably causes more people to get hurt than just 3. As often the incoming intruder has got marriage or baggage with him anyway - hence innocent kids suffer too, sometimes so much that they’re damaged.
They say that often the fun of an affair is the thrill of not getting caught, and then when the whole thing comes to light, as often it will - the cheating person realises that the person they cheated with is not that interesting anyway. But damage and hurt has been done.
Hope you have not been hurt in this manner, it’s a shame people just don’t stop to think first.
When they said they made a mistake, they mean they made the mistake of getting caught.
A criminal is one that got caught. And even then, he/she is innocent until proven guilty.
Once proven, cheating wifey is drawn, hung & quartered.
They make up lies to soften the one being cheated on. They also say they are sorry, it will never happen again, ect… it’s all an act. Remember players try to play the field. They always need a rebound so as not to be alone and they monopolize relationships to keep people where they want them. They say "I love you" to everyone they date in case one relationship goes wrong or they get bored. They want a nice girl to be hoping and waiting on them because they believed the "I love you" lie. When the player has a falling out from a different relationship, they call the nice girl up because at the moment she is the only option. Players have to convince the nice girl that they mean what they say in order to monopolize. Real love is more than words, it’s character, commitment, and gutting out hard times in relationships rather than looking for greener pastures. The one thing you have to accept is that cheaters are who they are and don’t change most of the time. They are skilled at listening to the needs of others, meeting those needs, then wasting time of the person because deep down they know they won’t be true to them. Give up the idea that you will be the "special one to change them" They already want you to believe that so you will continue to wait for them to grow up. If you don’t like what I am saying , you don’t want the truth and you will keep believing lies in order to stay with jerks. Being alone is the biggest fear some people have and that is why they are miserable with their spouses. They are more afraid of being alone than they are of letting go. The flip side to the coin is, they never really had the person they thought they had in the first place.
peace out
Lori