Is my wife cheating or am I just just being paranoid? I think my wife has been staying after hours with a man.?
for months we have had no sex. I found out she was talking to a man she works with on her email, and after she asked me to leave for awhile to get her head straight, i come back early and see that she’s been texting this man (she also has been sleeping with her cell phone). I also had a deal from work that would save our family /month if we merged our cell phones, and she wouldn’t for no apparent reason. I also read one of her mails that said if she didn’t get to talk to him, that she’d be thinking of him. This entire time, she has said she has NOT been mailing or texting him. I asked what age this guy was and she said "old, very old, father figure old" then i found out he was our age. When confronted, she just freaked out with rage and excuses. Now i find out this guy lives in our small town. He is the security guard where she works, and is there with her until she leaves. Am i nuts? or does this sound like she’s cheating?
Thought I should add this… when I ask her about it, ,she rages like I said, THEN says, "this is the LAST time we talk about this, the subject is officially closed!". I’m like WHAT?? You can’t "close" this topic, you haven’t answered one question! which is followed by more rage that ends up with her switching the tables and all the sudden I’m the bad guy who’s getting yelled at.
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Yes all the signs seem to be there.
If that’s not cheating, i don’t know what it is then.
Well you did see all the signs .. so no you are not being paranoid .. she’s up to something
keep ur eyes open
I am sorry to tell you but she is. Only a person with a guilty consciousness would get upset or freak out when she is asked a simple question. Telling a man who is not your husband "I will be thinking of you" sounds very suspicious to me and very inappropriate for someone who is married. Marriage should be based on honesty not on secrets. She is having secrets and dirty ones.
You deserve better.
Brother,
She is screwing him. If you cant see that then you need help.
Divorce her or kill her but just doit
She is for sure, at least she is getting there( i mean they may have not had sex or anything but there is interest)
shes definately doing infidelity you can take this or get even by messing around with another woman.im sure theres women out there you can get and like you in spite of marriage.
I’d say yes, but emotionally cheating. You don’t know if there has been any physical contact with this man, but her behaviour is suspicious and your assumptions are correct. I’m not sure what to do about this, as only you know how you can handle your wife. I would however, sit her down and explain all of this to her, ie her changed behaviour, and hopefully that’ll guilt her enough to explain the honest truth to you.
Good luck, I hope you figure it out.
She has cheated. Sleeping with the cell phone? Usually they just turn them on silent mode and keep them in a pocket. The rage too, because she got caught!
she’s cheating. she cant even be honest with you, and you’ve caught her in multiple lies. if i were you, and if she isnt willing to work on the marriage then its time for you to tell her you want a divorce.. im betting she will be relieved.
why do you want to stay with someone that lies to you all the time? move on and find someone who is honest and loves you for you-
Sure seems like cheating to me. You’re nuts to stay with her.
divorce her and get it over with I dont know how much more evidience you need she is sleeping with her phone by her side why dont you question this guy and see what kind of response you get dont ignore this
She wants the other guy. If they already had sexual encounter or not - that is not sure.
‘for months we had no sex’ - - just this sentence alone is a reason to end a relationship.
I would not occupy my mind if she has a relationship or not. There is no love from her side. It is clear she seeks other men and you are ‘not in the picture’.
Get out. Talk to her and explain you are not nuts. You do not want this to continue the way it is. And you can’t see this relationship would have any meaning or value.
For both of you it is the best to go your own ways.
It hurts. Sometimes we have to do things we don’t like. It is in order to have better future.
None of you will lose. You both will be better off. Wish you good luck.
I don’t think you are being paranoid. It sounds very suspicious. You have proof that she has been contacting him and lying about it. If it was so innocent, she wouldn’t be trying to hide it from you. Sleeping with her cell phone? Big red flag.
Put a keylog on your computer and get the proof you are looking for. Is she cheating? I’m pretty positive she is. You need to keep your cool and gather evidence that will save you a lot of money in the divorce. It’s a fact that if she is having an affair, She will not get alimony and you will get more out of the divorce. Months without sex? Dude that is the #1 sign that she is fu@king this other guy.The link below is to a kepylogger that only runs $29.95
It’s the best investment you will ever make.
yep buddy she is on the dirty dirty follow her and check her cell phone records you can do that your her husband just call the company you guys have your phone through abd they will give them to you and check the computer if she is on it go to internet options then browsing history and them view files good luck
the anger is a classic defense mechanism
hiding the phone lying about his statistics is a sign she is hiding something- could be they are just friends and shes worried youl take it the wrong way because hes the opposite sex
id just say look i dont mind you having friends but i do mind you hiding them from me
Cheaters get mad when busted, maybe you also have to talk to the guy to really clear up things.
Ok, but why does she stay with you? Are so rich?
She is cheating because she is obviously more interested in another man than she is you. Cheating usually involves lying and she is lying to you. She may not have ever slept with him, but she is definitely in an emotional affair with this man. No sex, secrets, lying they are all signs of cheating. You are not nuts.