Is my wife cheating on me?
We’ve had a very strained relationship as of late, mainly because of money. She is 25, and I noticed that she’s been spending a lot of time with my 16 year old little brother. She’s been picking him up from school and watching movies with him. Whenever I ask her what she’s been doing, she gets very angry and secretive and tells me: "I don’t ask about why you work so late, do I?" and tells me to mind my own business. I asked my brother, and he said he was just helping her watch our kids (which I think is BS). I looked through her phone when she was sleeping, and I saw a text message she got from my little brother saying: "I had a lot of fun tonight. Again tomorrow?" Something is going on, and I’m getting very frustrated. What should I do?
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He’s doin her man….like a monkey when your at work…….I bet he’s getting quite the trainning sessions with her………he’s probably thinking.." my bro’ is sooo stupid ..he’s busting his a-ss at work while I’m just a pumping away all long ..and she’s loving every minuet of it !
I wouldn’t jump to accusing her right away. It seems like you may have some insecurities that may be worrying you, and those insecurities will only end up pushing her away. Maybe look into it a little more and be certain before you accuse her any further or she’ll be forced to find a way out of the marriage. Just have a little trust in her, she is your wife. Are people telling you things that are making you think that your wife isn’t being faithful? Or have you done something that would cause you to have a guilty conscience? Most likely it’s all innocent as she said.
Don’t say anything, let her go and follow her without her knowing and find out for yourself.
well I think that you should confrunt her and tell her that you no tell how you no and she is going to get mad becouse of what you did but i propese if she really loves you she will get over it and if you really love her you can make it through it just remember the past is that past so it should stay in the past and you should look at your futer
call a sick day from work and go inspector-gadget on this!
i mean if this was just now,then just wait tomorrow, hang out at the doughnut shop all day…
i mean if your really gung-ho about this go to a place that sells small security cams(radio shack,best buy,fry’s electronics) and hid them around the house when she picks him up.
look in the "sent" message of her phone to see if see replied.
i feel for you dude i would be concerned about this too.
The text message was a bit scary — but then again, since nothing sexual was in it, it could have been anything. I tend to get suspicious early too, but I don’t think she’s cheating. It might be the way you ask her; she might think you sound nasty and suspecting even though that’s not what you intend it to sound like. Sometimes, when we have these feelings, are voice comes across differently than we think.. ‘Sides, there’s a huge age gap between them, if that means anything.
I think maybe you should try and repair your relationship — just through little things, like cute little "I love you" notes and things. We love that stuff.
Good luck! <3
It is possible your little brother is giving her something you are not. Granted he is only 16 but teens are open to just about anything when it comes to an attraction to an older adult. I’m hesitant to tell you that you should tell your brother not to come around anymore for fear that might cause rebellion. You may want to gently talk to your wife and tell her that you are concerned about your brother and his attraction for her. Remind her that he is a kid and very impressionable and you don’t want to see him hurt in any way. You may also want to employ your parents to help you with him and this situation. Lastly, you may want to ask your wife to go to marriage counseling with you so you can get your marriage on track.
You don’t really have any concrete evidence something is going on, so unless you get "proof" that something is happening I would just keep an eye out. If you jump on this to early and nothing is happening then you damned your marriage..