In one year my husband has been caught cheating on the Internet, lost 4+ jobs…causing financial difficulties
and now we’re filing bankruptcy and losing our house. Not only that….for 4 mos. he didn’t work at all and tried to start a business. Furthermore, he invested part of our savings in the tune of 15k without me being in agreement or my knowledge. Is this too much for a spouse to deal with in one year? Also, he is still not working. I’m so frustrated and want to throw the towel in. Please no "for better of worse" answers.
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get a job, save some money and divorce him. Hopefully you’re not the type of woman that doesnt have the foresight to be independent and have your own money/education. that way you can just leave him and not have to depend on him or whine for more alimony.
no one on here is going to say for better or for worse, we’re gonna say, what the hell is holding you back from divorcing him???? or why did you wait so long?????
You need a divorce for your sanity & your future!
looks like you really picked a winner.
get out while the gettins good. the guy’s a bum.
it sounds as though you have tried and been there for him, but now he is in his final spiral down fall and if you dont get away soon then you will be with him. so get what money out of the accounts as you can and leave
wow, what a bum.
i agree with the first answer.
save up some cash and get out of there!
Crap divorce tha lazy bum and take what you can while you still have it!
And WHY are you still with this man?
I don’t know why you’re still with this guy. I could say that if you still love him and can see the future with him in it and you’re both happy then maybe you should try and work it out. But you’re definitely not happy right now and you’re heading for so much misery. Maybe you should talk to someone you trust because the internet is not a place you should seek marital advice at. But I will tell you that too much stress can kill you so you do find to find a way to get rid of that stress. One way or another. You deserve to be happy.
I can’t say he’s a bum you guys must been married a while you saved a nice amount for your savings account. This year seemed to be difficult and your husband made some bad decisions and things are not turning out the way you wished but it’s too early to throw the town in. He’s trying to get rich you have to spend money to make money. He invested only part of your savings so you still have part left. What’s Internet cheating did he sleep with someone or not?
What about you? You didn’t say that you had a good job. You should, and it sounds like he has tried to do something positive, its just a bed streak of luck and he needs to get on the right track.
I went thru the same exact thing as he did. My ex divorced me and blamed all our problems on me. I went to homeless status after the divorce. A year later, she came crawling back, the grass wasn’t greener over there….. I told her to go f*ck herself. I found a smart woman who makes 60k a year and I have a good job too, and live in a $1MIL house.
She is still blaming her life on me and trying to punish me.. My advice: Do something with your life so that you can stop blaming and start helping.
I hate retarded armchair Quarterbacks who are hypocrites!!!!
He is probably on the net looking around because he knows that you have been shopping too. Lets face it, you are on Yahoo talking about divorce and moving on, don’t you think he can feel that?
It sounds like you’ve already made your decision. It doesn’t sound like he cared to much for the marriage so why should you? Salvaging your marriage would be like hitting yourself in the head and wondering why you have a headache….
divorce time! especially if you have no children
He is dragging you down money, love etc. Get a divorce find a man that takes care of bussiness and then you will have a partner to do things with and grow and make the best life you both can provide for each other. Send your x back to mommy he needs to learn how to run his life in the adult world.