How do I show my girlfriend I am not cheating on her in ANY way?
Hey I am dating a real real over protective x10 girlfriend.I love her in every way and just treat this over protectiveness as caring.She thinks by touching, talking and/or looking at a girl is cheating.I have done none but she always insists that I am looking or talking to other girls.She has broken up with me multiple times for this.She has absolutely no trust in me because I have lied to her once about me playing a game in one of my classes when she told me not to.I have forgiven her multiple times about what she did in our first month but she thinks im going to get revenge or something.I really do love this girl with all my heart and do not want to leave her or anything but I just want to stop the accusing and assuming of me cheating on her.
She has been cheated on in the past by most of her exs.I have sat down with her and talked about numerous times yet she still does
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has somebody cheated on her before? i know that feeling only to well. i had to sit down with the girl i love and explain that i would never cheat on her… blah blah blah… you just need to talk and let her know how special she really is and how nothing will ever change the way you feel… be honest
ask her why she doesnt trust you…. you seem like a good guy, she needs to realize that..
If there is no reason for her to think you are cheating, I think there are 3 possibilities.
1. She is cheating on you. people who cheat often accuse their partner of cheating.
2. She is totally insecure and looking for constant reassurance from you. She needs to be reminded often that she is the only one for you.
3 She is immature and not really ready for a committed relationship.
In any case, this sounds like her issue, you just have to decide weather or not to accept this part of her, because it is probably not going to change.
She has low self esteem and obviously feels guilty about the consequences of her previous actions.
My fiance used to be EXTREMELY controlling. When we first got together he kissed another girl and was paranoid that i would get revenge as i had forgiven him so easily. Then i lied to him about who my friend really was (basically one of my best friends is actually one of my ex boyfriends but it ended yrs before i met my fella so i felt no need to disclose this information) and to him this confirmed that i must be cheating with my friend to get back at him.
my fella would literally stalk me, he would constantly accuse me of where i was going and what i was doing and who i was with. all of my friends were ‘of no good’ according to him and would ‘lead me astray’.
In the end i sat down and spoke candidly to him about his unacceptable behaviour and i urge you to do the same. DO NOT sugarcoat ANYTHING! DO NOT fret about hurting her feelings, she needs to have some home truths said to her and she needs to accept responsiblity otherwise your relationship will not last.
when i spoke to my fella i basically said that his behaviour was TOTALLY unacceptable. If he didn’t want me to cheat then he was going a funny way about it as i felt as though he was urging me to so that he could catch me out! i told him that i felt trapped in the relationship and that it had become less of the latter and more of a prison sentence! i told him that i didn’t believe in cheating (which i don’t) and that if someone is going to cheat on their respective partner then they may as well just leave them because that shows that they don’t love them anymore. and as horrible as it was, i said to him "you can forget this me cheating on you nonsense because that will NEVER happen…i WILL break up with you first and then anything that i do after that is none of your business and has not been done behind your back!" i told him that he needed to accept responsiblity for his actions, and that this was his last warning. and everytime that he acted possesive after that i would just say to him ‘you’re being controlling, stop it’. he soon learnt to back off and just let me be me. and i believe that your gf is the same. she needs to understand that there is NOTHING she can do that will STOP you from cheating on her if you really wanted to! however, her behaviour is likely to make you more unhappy in the relationship and start to look for someone else. assure her that this is no threat just an observation.
this to you may sound like horrible advice but if she is that possesive then you need to firm. cruel to be kind. she needs to allow your relationship to grow and you can’t do that when one party has a tightgrip on it squeezing the life out of it!
good luck