Adults help - Signs that a GF is/ isn’t cheating on me?
Suspect my GF of 10 months is/ has been cheating on me with a married friend of hers. My proof is not concrete at all. Instead of getting into the long details of my story, I’m going to list out ways in which I think she isn’t cheating on me:
She’s 25
Holds a professional job from 7 AM - 3 PM.
Holds a secondary job as a music instructor from about 5 PM - 8 PM.
Lives at home with her parents (can’t bring him home to them obviously)
Almost all of her free time (other than sleeping) is spent with me…any time not spent is usually odd hours where cheating would not easily take place (weekday/ weekend afternoon, weekend morning, etc.)
She never flakes out on me, never cancels plans with me
95% of the time she picks up her phone when I call
Always calls me when she says she will
Does the usual GF stuff with me
He (the friend) lives with his wife/ daughter (obviously they can’t do anything there).
Does this sound like the actions/ signs of a cheating/ unfaithful person?
This is mostly for my own assurance. Been freaking out all day. Rather not confront her until I have all the proof I need but it’s difficult pretending everytime I see her that everything is alright. However, confronting her and realizing that I was wrong could also created trust problem on her end when they weren’t there in the first place!
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How can anybody say for sure, if you don’t list any suspicious ways.
If she’s not,….. SHE NEEDS TO BE.
what a worrying dork.
If she is unwilling to kiss you
If you feel no passion coming from her if you are sexually active
However, it seems to me that she may just be a little busy. Are you working?
1.acting strange
2.not going places with you
Ok lets see…do you think she is cheating on you? Id have to see what the evidentce was to be sure. By all the info here id say that if she did cheat on you it isnt very often or was just one time…..have you seen her at both jobs? Check to see if she really has them both without ever letting her know your going to ahead of time. other than that id say she isnt.
i’d say shes not, trust her more as thats major part of a relationship
Please tell your girlfriend that she should dump you immediately. You are untrusting, suspicious, lack self-confidence and paranoid. Your relationship will only get worse from here.
You sound extremely paranoid. Sounds like your problem is your lack of confidence to keep a woman. Perhaps you were hurt before.
Please ease up on her. Sounds like she’s just trying to focus on her life and get it together. Doesn’t sound suspicious at all, but I agree w/ Laughing Libra. Are you scared of this relationship becoming more of a commitment?
So, maybe i’m missing something, but what are the reasons you think she IS cheating on you? something must have put that idea in your head, or you wouldn’t be finding all the reasons why she’s not.
It may be your own insecurites, or maybe you have cheated on her. The fact is whether she is cheating on you or not, it doesn’t matter because you already suspect she is… no matter the reason.
If I were you I’d let it go for awhile, people can feel vibes, and if ou believe she is cheating your going to be suspicious and distant at the same time. You need to let it go and Love your girl the way she needs to be loved, if she’s cheating you’ll find out soon enough. I’m not saying be blind, but don’t create unnecessary stress in your relationship.
Sorry, but…. are you stupid????? I don’t see nothing wrong with her.
If she is going to cheat, it will be during a time that you least expect. For instance, during her work hours. She could start taking "long lunches" or maybe have "off-site meetings." These excuses provide the perfect cover for an affair. If you discover that she is out of the office more than usual, non-chalantly ask her about how her day went. If she hesitates, is evasive, or speaks in generalities, that is a potential red flag.
It is tough to catch someone cheating. Usually, a cheater is caught by accident.
If you can somehow access her computer and find out if she has any secret email accounts, or perhaps visited questionable web sites, you obviously have a red flag.
Maybe you can access her cell phone, and check to see numbers she has called or received… or any missed calls. If you see the same number repeated times…. you might have a red flag.
Another red flag is changes in sexual appetite or sexual practices, a change in hairstyle or wardrobe, or a new interest in different foods, drinks, or music.
Usually, when one half of a couple suspects the other of cheating, there is a good reason for such suspicions.
good luck.
No, not at all by the way you picture it shes eith you i doubt theres any cheating just a friend
No, this sounds like you are paranoid to the max… maybe you are the one cheating and are looking for an excuse blaming her??
No, this sounds like you are too controlling. If she is not cheating or looking elsewhere, she will be soon enough.
why don’t you just ask her?…
Never go looking for anything. Because when you will you will always get disappointed in the end.
"if it walks like a duck, it is a duck"
If you have to ask, there is a problem in the relationship even if it isn’t cheating.
Where’s the fact list of why you think she’s cheating on you? There’s not a single reason from your list to believe that she is cheating on you. You need to give more information on why you think she is cheating. Otherwise, you are just paranoid.