Comments on: Has anyone ever hired a PI to investigate a suspected cheating spouse?

By: alialoggi

alialoggi — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 22:09:46 +0000

Yes! Best money I’ve ever spent. I don’t want to tell you the exact amount, because we are going through a divorce now, and he doesn’t know specifics. Very affordable though. I found out he was cheating. I didn’t even suspect he was cheating until he was followed after he filed for divorce. Then, with phone records subpenas I found out that its was a n affair that had been going on prior to his filing. I would highly recommend hiring a PI if you have a smidge of a suspicion. I’m glad I did!

By: Tigerluv

Tigerluv — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 22:09:46 +0000

You could call up Cheaters the tv show and catch him that way. Then we could all see what pans out! Keep us updated and Good luck.

By: tanner

tanner — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 22:09:46 +0000

My father in law did this to my mother in law. I think it was like $100.00 per hour, something like that. And yes, the PI came back with photo’s of my mother in laws new man.

Try contacting cheaters.com it’s the TV show, and they are free!

By: daniel s

daniel s — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 22:09:46 +0000

This is lame. Really

By: Sunshyne

Sunshyne — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 22:09:46 +0000

if you feel that he is cheating then you should just leave.. 9 times outa 10 its happening.. i almost did that, but with the grace of God revealed it to me and oh yeah it wasnt pretty on his behalf!…just leave him girl!.. you can call cheaters.. or go to their website.

By: Mrs.BeenThereTwice

Mrs.BeenThereTwice — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 22:09:46 +0000

I didn’t–I did the investigating myself! Because I disagree with the posters that say that if you suspect it you should leave. I don’t think anyone should EVER accuse someone of that behavior without proof! All I knew was that he was acting strangely, wouldn’t talk to me, argued with me frequently, and was gone from home more than he was there! So I checked his phone (when I could because he started hiding it and had it on a low ring or vibrate…but I did write down one suspicous number and called it…that led me to the "who"…); talked to his employers about a trip he took…and found out that he DIDN’T even go, but the boss did, and it was a different date then he told me! Followed him but didn’t get any evidence from that. I started asking him questions about his business trip, put 2 and 2 together, called the hotel I thought he went to and got a copy of the bill faxed to me with his name and OUR home address. Then I called HER HUSBAND! She was p*ssed!!!

Now they are still together and they are both miserable! He’s always calling me and complaining about "the b*tch"…hmmmm….guess the grass wasn’t greener.

If you’ve got the $$$ to do it, you should. Its very emotionally draining!

By: gia

gia — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 22:09:46 +0000

no . but its usually expensive and not worth it. just investigate yourself! its really not that hard.
good luck

By: princess leah

princess leah — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 22:09:46 +0000

no but you could also try a "honey trap" if you don’t trust him-basically gorgeous women you can hire to see if he would cheat on you given half the chance…….

By: lovely

lovely — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 22:09:46 +0000

NO…..Save your money , if it has gotten bad enough that you need a PI ……you already have your answer ( they are cheating)

By: Traffic Planner

Traffic Planner — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 22:09:46 +0000

PI’s start at $100.00 an hour. I wanted to do it, but couldn’t afford it. I just looked at the phone bill online, saw a repeat number and repeat text messages about 20 - 30 times a day. I asked him about it he said it was work stuff, I called the number and got her voice mail! I grilled him for a couple of weeks, finally he told me. (You can also try to look through his email if you know his password.) Good Luck. He ain’t worth it!