Comments on: Is it cheating if your spouse signs up with a nasty website online?

By: Jennifer L

Jennifer L — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 07:14:48 +0000

my husband did this ….

maybe you need to see a therapist so you keep your wits about you. Therapy will help you figure out what direction you want your life going into.

By: michelleleea2

michelleleea2 — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 07:14:48 +0000

its fantasy

By: troll_house_kookies

troll_house_kookies — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 07:14:48 +0000

what kind of website? A porno website? A swinger website? Why not join him and share his fantasy?

By: shughes2000_2000

shughes2000_2000 — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 07:14:48 +0000

I guess that would largely depend on what exactly he is doing on this website?

By: soccerchik876

soccerchik876 — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 07:14:48 +0000

Well it is kind of cheating but if you see him with another woman that he met on the site then he would be cheating on you.

By: Ray H

Ray H — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 07:14:48 +0000

Its not cheating , the fact that he’s lying to you sucks though .

By: ladee_in_luv

ladee_in_luv — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 07:14:48 +0000

Its the start of it, he must have intentions to do something, but before you go of in one try to find out why hes doing it…maybe he just wants a change and if thats the case, change on him, make things different if you are very routine…dont let your emotions get in the way jus yet, jus find out why hes doing it, and if its for some sort of need, then you try and forfill it…

By: stockoslayer

stockoslayer — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 07:14:48 +0000

No, it is NOT cheating. Just get over it. Ask him if you can look at it together.

By: Alessandro

Alessandro — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 07:14:48 +0000

I don’t think is cheating, but it is disrespectful and offensive toward YOU. He shouldn’t have done that, he’s not a bachelor anymore, he is a MARRIED MAN! Why does he need to do that??? He’s acting like an inmature teenager, I’m sorry…

By: Thera 9

Thera 9 — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 07:14:48 +0000

Porn? No. Get over yourself deary…porn is necessary in society. He doesn’t think less of you, he is just male. Get yourself some pics of hot guys and post them on your computer or something if you want to give him a piece of his own medicine. Fantasize yourself, it goes both ways deary.

Now, if it is a swingers website or a dating website…I might be more than a little concerned.