What r some signs of husband cheating?
Can u give me some signs that my husband is cheating. I have a gut feeling and can’t confront him without proof. Is there any place on the internet that I could start searching for email address and stuff like that.
I found some email from my husbands ex that he had 20 years ago and now my husband has deleted all those messages and I think has set up another account. I think he knows that I know, but cant prove it cause he deleted all the messages. Please help. I’m very stressed over this.
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There are so many signs, but some are not as obvious as others. For one if your hubby is being secretive about his cellphone messages and being a little too over protective, that is one.
Another one is the computer, yes the famous internet!!
If your looking to find information that your husband already deleted, your not going to find it, however there is a program out there that really works as your own little detective inside your computer.
you want to keep closer tabs on your hubby because you suspect he is hiding somethingl, go to your nearest staples store. You can purchase software called" CYBER FAMILY ALERT, it takes minutes to install and its about $29.00. This program records and picks up every key stroke, conversations, any images that he sees, the computer sees, every application used the computer sees and records, without his knowledge, It hides behind the computer monitor, only you will know the password and how to bring the program up.
It will record everything for you, messenger too,and you can even print out any conversations, anything.
I had the same problem 2 years ago, I bought the software and it really does work!! I was even able to pick up passwords, I bought it for peace of mind, my suspicions were unfounded, but at least I had peace of mind knowing I was not being made a fool of.
So don’t even bother trying to frustrate yourself like someone else said here by checking out other e-mails, that would be too time consuming and aggravating, just simply get the software that I told you about , let the software do all the searching for you, its that simple, again, just install it, and wait day or two and hubby is not home and you will be able to see what the hubby has been up to :).
20 years ago.. there was no gerneral email…..lol That was like the stone age…
why dont you just talk to him. you said he knows you know anyways.
Not wanting to have sex with you anymore is a good clue.
Is he acting different, is he more distant?Does he walk out the room to talk on the phone? Don’t go looking for it, let it come to you, it always does, but definitely keep your ears and ears open! GOOD LUCK!
hey just confront him your a woman you dont need proof
hes a guy thats all the proof you need! … maybe you just need to calmly talk to him and ask him say i have been having some real security issues with our relationship and come right out and ask him what you want to know … say its not that i dont trust you because i do its just been a little diffrent that normal around here. Maybe a tension or something… dont accuse just ask
guys dont like being attacked!!!!! and expecially if they havent done anything. But if you feel an akwardness i bet he does too!
go into history and see what pages hes been looking at and if hes been on his email u cant get into his emails without a password ,also look in his phone
Follow your gut feeling…I did and found my bf (at the time) with one of my friends…ouch !!! If you have a gut feeling, that probably also means you don’t trust him…now that can’t mean you’re happy, why wait for proof and lose your precious time and energy. Take all this and concentrate on making yourself happy again. Good luck, and it gets better with time.
Why dont you just communicate with him and flat out ask him? You can get spyware for the computer which will tell you what he is doing at all times on the computer, I think it is illegal though but I know some radio stations have talked about it. You can also hire a PI to track him . . .
Do you think at all you are overly paranoid?
The biggest sign is always a change in usual behavior. If he starts working late, spending more time on the computer, or becoming defensive about things he shouldn’t need to be. If he begins locking his cell phone, deleting messages on his phone or in email. Starts receiving blocked calls, anything like that if it is different than he usually did. Affairs and cheating take time and effort and money. A woman is not going to have an affair with him if she isn’t getting any attention except sex. She will want to talk to him on the phone, email him, go on dates, ect. He will want to buy her gifts. It will all show up eventually. Also, if he has always been buying everything with a debit card, for example (I rarely carry cash anymore) and suddenly begins making cash withdrawls instead, it is a sign he is hiding purchases and expenses. Another thing to look for, I read this in a book from a private detective, cheaters seem to want to disappear the day before or day after a "woman’s holiday" such as Mother’s Day or Valentines Day. This PI said the day after Valentine’s day was his best day to catch cheaters as they wanted to be with their mistress. Something to think about.
instead of trying to play "cloak and dagger" i would just confront him point blank. once you do that, his reaction will be very very telling. people that are lying tend to not look you in the eye, fidget a lot, rationalize, tug at their collars, lean away from you, change the subject, etc. while these reactions are not always conclusive…what you are looking for is deviations from routine. those are often the most telling signs. hopefully he is not cheating, but if he is, it is better that you find out the truth sooner than later. you’ll be glad that you did.
Signs: Sleeping all day but have not worked, you both don’t make love in bed anymore, (thats a big clue) pretends to consentrate on work more than your love life, (again another big clue) then you suspect he is gay. And if that doesn’t help… well… just talk to him about it.
That’s pretty impossible. You’ll have no way of knowing what user ID he chose or if he even used his real name. You can check the usual sites like myspace, facebook, friendster, etc. but again he would have had to register with his real name for you to find him or search by the email address of his that you already know. One thing to do is search for the address he uses but replace the ending. For example if he normally uses greg@yahoo.com then also try greg@aol.com, greg@msn.com etc. because people get attached to their address & just use different services to start a new one. You have to be REALLY good to find stuff online.
Get keylogger software for your computer.
Number 1.. if you suspect it.. it probably is happening.
put software on your pc to track his movements/keystrokes
Go with your gut feeling because it is always true… if you get a chill feeling in your heart and lump in your stomach followed by nausea, then something could have happened.
I had advice from an attorney one time about someone who is lying. In the conversation, if they fail to look you in the eyes and are constantly looking to the RIGHT they are lying … Looking to the LEFT means they are reaching into their memory. Sounds CRAZY I know.. but in conversations with MY husband - I found it to be true. Crazy! But it works.
I’m a private investigator and I do a lot of domestic infidelity investigations. i have found the best way to catch a cheating spouse is an Online Infidelity investigation. that’s where we take your spouses email address and trace it back to a secret personal ad or secret social networking site like facebook or myspace.