I am a navy depper is it better to get divorced bofore boot camp or after im in?

signed my contract as an stg ship to boot camp on nov. 25 found out 2 days after signing my wife was cheating on me. moved away from situation so i cant do anything stupid yes there already was police involvement. yes my recruiter knows of my situation but he doesnt really have answers on this one. so at this point im trying to figure out is it better to get divorced before im in or after? also we have 2 kids together of which my mother in law currently has custody due to situation. any input is appreciated

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