Is my girlfriend cheating on me?

So earlier yesterday I was finally able to see my g/f for the first time in probably 3 months after she had to move back home to work, and do community service. I had cheated on her, the first time, well it wasnt really cheating, I just made a new friend online, ignored her for a bit, because she was ignoring me, so i decided to do that same. but i never actually met this new friend, but we talked about things online, and by phone, never saw her without clothing, but we did talk about things on the phone that I probably shouldnt have talked about. So I knew I had to tell her about this, tonight, being that I wanted to tell her in person, not by phone. We got a hotel room together because she had a free night after staying there for a while because of trouble with her family. It was the first time in 3 months probably that we’ve spent the night with each other. We were watching tv and she was getting lots and lots of texts and phone calls, she even goes out on one occasion to talk on the phone for about 10 minutes. she comes back I ask why she went out to talk on the phone? she says i duno, i ask again, she says well because the tv is loud i guess..so i let it go. So as I go into the shower, the show cheaters is on tv. (coincidentally lol) she says as shes walking out of the shower, you better not cheat on me, ill kill you! I said yea i wont..i kinda hesitated while saying it, and she asks why i did, i said let me take a shower and ill tell you. So I tell her about it. She was upset, cried a little, and said she knew something was wrong because of the way I was acting the whole night. I asked her whats next, and said I dont know, and I said I was sorry, she said it doesnt matter anymore, because everyones the same, everyone cheats on everyone sooner or later. she said shes been cheated on so many times, and she doesn’t care about it anymore. So that night we fell asleep in our opposite corners of the bed. The next day we go out to eat, hang out for a while, and I drop her off home where she gives me a hug and kiss (to my surprise) I honestly expected the worst from what i would say. Before I drop her off she tells me she might come back up to my place tonight to pick up a few things. keep in mind she still has over half her stuff from her place at my place, but has been living back at her place while working and doing community service. So that night she comes by my place to get an entire cabinets worth of clothing, shoes, and other supplies for hygiene. I asked her if I should help her carry it back down to the car, and she said yeah. But I’d have to kiss and hug her before we went outside…I asked why, she said because its a long story..I said is it because you have your other boyfriend in the car out there jokingly, and she said no lol haha what? She said its kinda of a long story, i said well tell me, shes looking kinda anxious, and squirmy, and says well the only way they would give me a ride out here is if i told them that i broke up with my boyfriend and paid 10$ for gas, and he is making me pick up my stuff right now. She said I have to act mad when we walk out, and pretend to be really mad at her…

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