Facebook and Ex-spouses…What's your opinion?

I am wondering how other people would feel…Ok here’s the story. My husband and I have been married for 14 years now and together 16. He was married to his high school sweetheart for a short time before she left. They had been together for 3 years and married for 6 months. She left him and he was heartbroken. I told him a long time ago that if they ever got in touch I wouldn’t mind as long as he told me. They never spoke again until about 3 years ago. I don’t know who got in touch with who but that is beside the point. Well they did get in touch and he didn’t tell me.She came to town to visit an ex sister in law I know(she came all the way from the east coast to the west coast). He had her come to his work so they could talk. He never told me ANY of this. I found out 1 year later because I looked in his email(Yes I know this is wrong but I had reason to believe he was cheating on me in another situation) I was not expecting to find this. I was expecting to find out that he was cheating and or meeting people for sex. I was pissed to say the least. We talked about it, resolved it and it was over. Well last month she invited him to facebook and he accepted. He didn’t know what facebook was and she was his first friend. He lied to me about this when I asked him.I was pissed and told him to take her off. I don’t like the fact that she can’t stay up to date with him. I told him it had to do with respect. I don’t think we need to know the daily info. I don’t like the fact that she can see every time somebody post a picture. I don’t know it just bothers me. They said their good byes and I think it should be done. What do you think?

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