Is my wife cheating on me?

Ok so here’s a little history since I know this question has been asked a million times on here. I would preffer answers from women by the way.

So I’m 26 years old and so is my wife. We’ve been together for eight years and been married for about 6 months. Just for the record I have been known to be OVERLY PARANOID about shit so please take that into consideration. first let me state the positives… My wife spends 98% of her free time with me at the house. She openly lets me on her computer and into her email account and leaves her phone lying around with no worries about me seeing any illicit texts or anything. Nothing really shady ever goes on from what I can tell but I just have this feeling… In the past 3 years I’ve put on a good amount of weight. Basically I used to be really athletic with a nice body and now thats all kind of gone to shit. We still have sex but its usually only once or twice a month. She just seems to kind of be cold and distant, even though she responds in kind everytime I say I love you. She also will still kiss me on the forhead every morning that she leaves before i wake up. I don’t necessarily have any reason to suspect anything is going on right now except for the whole cold/distant thing (no strange emails, txts, numbers in phone etc.).

However, about 2 and a half years ago when we had been together for about 5 years we went to a sports car event in the mountains. We stayed on a house boat with about 9 other people (most of them guys). We got extremely wasted the first night we were there and one of my "friends" was just getting a little friendly with my (at the time) girlfriend. I ended up passing out along with everyone else at about 2 or 3 am. The next day we went on this thing called a poker run where we all kind of zoomed through the mountains trying to do a scavenger hunt type thing. Anyway here’s where the part that really bothers me comes in. Me and my wife (gf at the time) were in my car and the guy that was getting a little friendly with her was behind us. We got separated from the rest of the group and the two of us ended up stopping at a gas station to try and figure out directions. So Me and my wife stop and the guy behind of us stops as well. We talk and try to figure out where we’re at and where we’re going and all the sudden she just says "I’m gonna ride with him" and jumps in the car with him. Why would she do this? The only thing I can think of is that something happened while I was asleep and she felt like she needed to talk with him privately about it.

Again I’ve been known to be super paranoid and my wife has stood beside me through alot of low points in my life but I just can’t seem to shake this idea. Can someone (preffereably a woman) give me some feedback here?

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