My wife has been cheating on me for 5 months, moved out with a "surfer" into his place and still IM's me, why?

My wife of 15 years has been cheating on me for 5 months, moved out of our VERY nice house, we have 3 kids, (they are with me thank God). She is with a "35 year old surfer dude" into his 1 bedroom apartment and a futon, says she is in love and says they are going to get a house together… Yet still she instant messages me every night, to which I don’t respond at all. Never. Is she crazy?

I am 39 and my soon to be ex-wife (thank god, I want no part of her) is age 36. I won’t put up with any of this mid-life female crisis stuff. I have always been very loving and the ideal husband. I have moved on though, happily.

Why is she still trying to instant message me? I would tell her to leave me alone, but we have kids. So, I only talk to her when she wants to make crazy arrangements to see the kids. The surfer dude has 2 kids of his own and his ex-wife cheated on him and kicked his ass out previously. It’s a lovely tale…. Personally, I think my soon-to-be ex-wife is living in La La Land….
I don’t think their affair has a snowball’s chance in Hell of making it…
My soon-to-be ex-wife’s instant messages are mostly at night (weird,,):
[10:23 P.M.]: U there or watching tv?

To which I don’t and never respond.
To me, what is most important to me are my 3 loving children. They are 6, 8 and 13 (two boys and a girl). I love my children so much and I am protecting them from this nonsense by the ex-wife. Since I work out of the home, it is easy for me to dedicate every minute to them, their needs and giving them all the love they deserve to be happy children. I am a very solid grounded person who knows I deserve a better woman and these kids deserve the best parenting. I am a great parent who is hands-on and addresses all the children’s needs. I am selfless and a confident father to my wonderful children. Am I proud? You bet I am.

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