I’m in love with a guy that is invloved with another woman?

About 2 months ago I reconnected with a guy I went to HS with. We hit it off and immediately fell in love. We talked online and over the phone many times and we told each other our deepest darkest secrets. It didn’t matter because we were in love and accepted each other for who we were.

Now there’s this girl that he had been interested in for many years and they even dated for a while. Well she cheated on him and he broke things off. That was about 10 years ago. Life went on and they both married other people. Then she divorced and 6 months later he separated from his wife. She started dating this guy so he decided to date also. That’s where we come in. We had already fallen in love with each other when she dropped the bombshell that she dumped her man. Well because of their history, he decided to date her. I as crushed but I couldn’t turn my feelings off for him.

So here is the present dilemma. He is in love with 2 women. I know what you are thinking….how is that possible? Why would I not walk away from him if he has decided to be with her? Well we are so much in love that I cannot stop seeing him. We are not intimate but converse every day and see one another at least 3 times a week. He is torn because he loves both of us. We have tried to not communicate, but we just miss one another way too much. I cannot break away from him and go on. He is the sweetest man and I believe that he is my soulmate. He just feels that if he doesn’t at least try with her, he may cheat on me. I know that sounds lame but I just don’t care.

How can I break away from him when my feelings for him are so strong? I can’t go 1 day without talking to him and can’t go more than 2 days without at least seeing him. I’m dying inside because the love is so deep. I’m not a teenager either. I am 35 years old raising teenagers. Please understand this isn’t puppy love and please don’t be rude…I just need some help and advice.

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