How long did it take you to get over your spouse cheating?

How long did it take you to get over your spouse cheating?

I mean if you had no clue and you were happy and there were no signs that he was cheating till you found out? My husband and I have been together for 6 years, married for 3.5. the last 2 years have been the best ever and we have been the happiest we have ever been. Till this weekend someone told me that she slept with my husband in July. At first I didn’t believe her and then I did and I was gonna leave him then he convinced me that she was lying but now she says she will show me the text messages she has saved on her phone.

I am starting to think he is lying. How long did it take you to heal or to get over it? If he did cheat should I forgive him? I love him more than anything and I don’t want to lose him but I don’t want to be a fool who gets cheated on and taken advantage of. I just want to be loved. Im torn because until I see the text messages I don’t know who is lying and who is telling the truth.

I’m afraid if he did that I will never get over it.

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