Comments on: Can some people give me some signs of a cheating husband?

By: Jezzabelle24

Jezzabelle24 — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 09:48:19 +0000

i hate to say it but i think he may be cheating… i understand you are pregnant and not in the mood but you are married and you are suppose to take care of all his needs and vice versa. so you say he has cheated before… why do you feel like he might not do it again. as women we tend to feel like " we are having his child and he should understand im not in the mood" my husband asked me when i get big from the pregnancy am i going to stop having sex with him. and i answered "no of course not, i love you." i would never deny him something he wants from me bec i know that he would never tell me no either no matter what it was.

By: Sweet Wifey

Sweet Wifey — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 09:48:19 +0000

you can type seach for question what you are asking cause there is many of them on the list.. hope this help

By: joan_of_freakin_arc

joan_of_freakin_arc — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 09:48:19 +0000

when your intuition tells u something is wrong u need to pay attention to it, and yes some of the things u are describing are classic signs of cheating. when they are cheating they sort of tune u out as if your not even there anymore.

By: ndnqt1966

ndnqt1966 — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 09:48:19 +0000

I would say that your husband is cheating….staying at work longer, smelling like perfume, sneaking online, starting arguments, withholding affection, withholding sex, going off for 12 hours…..these all are signs that he is cheating on you….he has both emotionally, and sexually withdrawn from you…because he is giving it to someone else.

By: lucki f

lucki f — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 09:48:19 +0000

I think he is cheating on you..i mean all the signs are there..just try to kiss him and u know try to ask questions while u do it….maybe taht will work!!

please pick me as best answer…im am competing, and i really need the points…ps im not trying to sound needy but i really need ‘em..
thxs and good luck!!

By: blueice

blueice — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 09:48:19 +0000

Did you know your husband cehatedon you b4?
I think there’s something behind your husband… and my recommend you to leave him…. It’s better you’re the one who leaves him cause he’s a loser. If he’s the one who leaves you… you’re the loser. I know you’re pregnant…. it won’t change your husband…. He’ll ignore you. This is not right if he’s gone for 12 hours straight with telling you where he went. Or maybe you can attract him back then after you feel close to him already… you can ask him nicely without emotion about it….

By: youngbld9

youngbld9 — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 09:48:19 +0000

I hate to say this, but all those signs combined with the fact that he cheated before, he is cheating, i would bet my paycheck on it

By: ShezFly2

ShezFly2 — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 09:48:19 +0000

I think you answered your own question…. You names quite a few signs.

By: Veevee

Veevee — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 09:48:19 +0000

This sounds very painful…you need some support…I’m not married but part of what you wrote sounds like me. …it’s important to have a supportive partner… i know your question was …is cheating and what are the signs…intuition is a usually a good gauge with me and it is a question of trust too…need to trust a partner.
Only you can decide on what to do….get some help and remember you have a baby on the way…that’s great and there is much responsiblility with that and also joy…focus on the new baby and get a counselor to help you…community or private…whatever helps. I need to follow my own advice to…all the best to you.

By: Cathy C

Cathy C — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 09:48:19 +0000

Okay - here goes. If he cheated before - the odds are that it’s happening again. His "argument" this time may be that you’re pregnant and he has "needs". BS - you hear me? BS.

You have the right to a stable, loving partner - doesn’t sound like he’s the one! Take care of yourself and the baby - that is your first priority.