If you thought your spouse cheating, do you think it’s ok to look through their stuff?
For your own protection, mentally, physically(diseases)
I know you shouldn’t just snoop around in your husband or wifes things, you should trust them. But when all the signs are there, and you feel like you’re the only one in town who dosen’t know. Don’t you think it’s ok to try to find out, if they won’t tell you?
I have asked him. It is always denied with an unbelievable excuse. For instance: He says he was out with his friend "John". I call John. John says he hasn’t seen him. Hubby says John is lying! Yea Right! Does he think I’m stupid? I just can’t prove it.
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If the spouse has done something to make you suspicious, it is okay to snoop. How else are you going to find out if something is going on or not? You certainly won’t get a straight answer out of them and if they are trying to hide something, they will try to cover their tracks better because they’ll think you’re on to them. So when you feel suspicious, you should snoop right away - don’t give them the chance to hide any evidence. You will either confirm your suspicions or realize that you were overreacting.
you mean as your throwing it out the window right?
i would
why not no smoke without fire?
IF U have doubts ask u dont want to start snooping u might end up being very wrong be upfront ask the question
Honey I wouldn’t look through their stuff
I’d shoot it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Of course! It’s the only way you’re going to find out, he’s not going to admit it.
Confornting him upright would be the best solution. Cause even if you dont find anything in his stuff you will still continue to doubt him and feel miserable.
look through their stuff anyway, like my mum says what’s his is mine and what’s mine’s me own
most deffinetly she cant be trusted or he cant be trusted then you need to find out more and how long this is been happening for instence if you were in a long term then holy cow all those years just went by and you should have the right to know how long this has been going on. I am a guy and it has been proven that guys are dumbshits when hiding this stuff because they actually either call from there house phone or the numbers are always in the wallet
Mentally
Yes, it is ok. Why would you not? I wouldn’t want to play the fool and not check it out if I really thought he was cheating on me.
I would. If you have a hunch or gut feeling. I think that everyone that is in a realtionship goes through the same thing that you are asking. Check credit card statments on line, phone bills, even hire a private investagotr if you feel something is fishy.
it depends i guess i don;’t realy no im not married
No it’s not alright! But I would do it anyways. You have a right to know even if it is sneaky and wrong. Go for it girl. Hope you don’t find what you are looking for. Good Luck
Looking through their stuff may not be right but if they are cheating that’s more wrong than anything. Whoever the woman is should go for it and God will be on her side anyway.
Normally I would say no. BUT I have been told a story about a woman who hacked into her husband’s secret files on his computer. In there, were articals about how to kill your wife, and get away with it. I KID YOU NOT!! So now I am devided on this issue.
Yes Go thru everything look for email account passwords variois profiles. Check Online History Check Message Archive on messenger. Check Old Phone Bills. Everything Text Messages Go through it all. Your spouse wont say you know what i have been hiding this or that, you have to find out if you want to know.
IF YOU DON’T LOOK, YOU’LL NEVER KNOW
IF HE’S NOT HIDING ANYTHING- YOU WON’T FIND ANYTHING
if u r sure and signs is driving u that diraction so i think u need to make sure and dont just bass it away its not that small thing
Well, if you would want my oppinion– thats a good idea. if my girlfriend was to cheat on me id get as much information from peopple i know and that are good friends with her but are back stabbers so then they would tell me. trust me there is a lot of those at my school. but yeah thats a good idea, it could get you some really useful information. So thats my oppinion.
i’d ask him first, and his answer doesnt sound truthful, give your best freind the key and take him out somewhere and ket her snoop. that way he’ll be sure not to walk in on it, and your friend, if they know you well enough, will know how to break any news to you.
I think that we all snoop some time and again and if you suspect that he/she is cheat or what ever you feel that he/she is doing.You should come right out and ask if this person cares for you they would tell you the truth.
Confront him. Or you could find evidence and than confront him. Either way he should know that you won’t tolerate it.
Yes you have reason to doubt him then you have the right to know the truth.. or you could snoop and then ask him and see what he has to say and then see what adds up. If you are feeling that he is cheating you are probably right.
You better be pretty sure. But if you are, you should. BUT be very discreet!
YOU MUST PROTECT YOURSELF.
1. DO NOT CONFRONT HIM YET.
2. Get proof positive. Credit card slips, photos, hire a private detective, etc. You are basically lining your ducks up so that you don’t get screwed.
3. Hide your assets. Take any money you might have in the bank out. Get your own safe deposit box, hide your jewelry etc.
4. Make sure you’re lined up with a job, family support, etc.
5. After you’ve prepared yourself, you can do one of 2 things. Confront him and hope he changes. OR Bring all of your evidence to a lawyer to protect yourself.
Good luck.
no cause if they catches you your in for it
just break up with them
i go through my hubbys wallet all of the time. i dont think he’s cheating, but i still do
If I had reason to look through my husbands things I sure would . I would want to know what he was up to and why . Check him out girl !
Angel
Absolutley 100percent you should —I did and discovered my wife had cheated on me over 13 times—with 13 different people—I put a key logger on the cpu to "monitor where my kids went on the net" and recorded her and her "friend" from work chatting about their first time—nice. My Atty told me if its in the house its community property–look thru it all makee copies and start documenting EVERYTHING now–keep a journal
Does he have a cell phone? I found my ex-bf cheating by checking his emails and cell phone. Some guys forget to delete their sent emails and delete all calls they make.
YES, I think it’s absolutely ok. Don’t even stress about it.