is my boyfriend cheating?, dreams?, signs?, hmm help please?
i keep having dreams my b/f is cheating on me for like the last few months all the time (and dont worry im not goin to finish with him because of my dreams lol!) but anyway, i have done a bit of research on it, as its really making me think, and from what i have found, ur subconscious can pick up on signs that ur partner is cheating on you and when u are asleep (out of conscious mind - unconscious) u are able to connect ur conscious with subconscious.
so for example, if when u ask ur b/f certain questions and he changes the subject or reacts funny, ur conscious miht block out these signs, but ur subconscious can pick up on them and other reactions etc.
i have told this to my boyfriend as we are both quite spiritual, and he didnt deny anything, and whenever i say i would never cheat on u n i would never think u would cheat on me, he never says anything back… n just wanted to add that i have tried asking him upfront, and i have even said i dont mind if he has, i just dont want to be lied to. i mean, its so easy 4 him to cheat, we have been together 5years and have a 2yearold girl and he still lives by himself up the road? things dont add up, maybe it is my mind, but if he was really into me then he wouldnt be so unemotional right? yh n i 4got to add when i asked him like once if he has cheated he gets angry and storms out, so i have to watch what i say, also i have said it once when he was in a good mood (while watching a reality chat show lol ) and he says no, but sticks up fpr guys when they hav n say that men r suppossed to have more than 1 women, when i ay so u want more women, he gets annoyed n says no.. hmm!
i really dont go on about it though, its always in my head now, but i have only brought it up twice
thanks 4 the help x
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When one asks outright or is upfront, asks the question openly and leaves no option but an answer, the other is left with no alternative than to answer/deny/confess or leave the one asking insulted, to come to their own conclusions. The hinting and remarking at different opportunities is what will upset him, it’s like nagging and will not get you anywhere, so If you can’t get that, then stop sleeping with him because your being used,. It may not have started out so, but why is he not living with you by now…kind of suspicious. And forget that "i wouldn’t mind" crap, he knows you’d have no choice but to mind, otherwise you wouldn’t be asking and after all forgive as you may, you will soon find out it is "you" who end up living with it, not him. And he’s not about to give you a never again promise, if he’s not caught or doesn’t want to give the others up. He may still care but he’s not in love.
And believe me spirituality comes and goes with ppl, it changes with age and situations, nor can you actually speak for the spirituality of others…especially if he hasn’t the curtisy to give you an answer, think of what your saying here, if he’s so spiritual then why do you think he’s cheating…can’t have it both ways, now can you??
The subconscious picks up everthing, but it usually isn’t until after the fact, that most women catch on, hindsight being 100%.
The very best method is instinct, if a person is not the suspicious type of course. If things aren’t adding up then your right.
But certainly don’t go by his "not talking" because you should know by now most men are "not and never have been" good at communicating, talking about emotions or even not showing them as you say cold and this has been fact since time immemorial, it’s the biggest complaint against men. You should be able to pick up on the changes in him, his behavior today, compared to how you’ve always know him.
If it helps any, the average 24yr old male has the maturity level of a 17yr old girl, 26yrs old is the new 21 for men, so i hope your not one who rushed or jumped into a relationship and family if you are then you basically hooked up with a teenager. Not only do they have the highest seperation/divorce rate of all ages, but the main complaint during those ages/relationships is that…they don’t help with the house work, the kids, always want to be with friends, don’t try anymore, are inconsiderate, irrisponsible, immature, not at all ready to settle down.
There’s a ton more differences between the sex’s than the physical.
Women have to at least like a guy, before sleeping with them, where a guy does not, men do not relate sex to love it’s women who do that, men and women have different ways of sizing up a mate, men tend to like variety that’s where a lot of cheating comes in, men will hold on to a dying relationship for the sex alone, where as women get out when the loves gone, kids are the hardest thing on a relationship so it better be strong and commited before they come along.
If you have a gut feeling that your man is cheating go with it because 9 times out of 10 its right just like dreams
just ask him
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