Comments on: is my boyfriend cheating?, dreams?, signs?, hmm help please? http://howtocatchacheater.net/567/is-my-boyfriend-cheating-dreams-signs-hmm-help-please/ Fri, 03 Sep 2010 13:33:02 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: laura http://howtocatchacheater.net/567/is-my-boyfriend-cheating-dreams-signs-hmm-help-please/comment-page-1/#comment-46608 laura Mon, 10 May 2010 08:47:14 +0000 http://howtocatchacheater.net/567/is-my-boyfriend-cheating-dreams-signs-hmm-help-please/#comment-46608 people have been saying in my school that ur boyfriend asked out so many girls and cheating on u is it true because they dont like me but when i ask my bf is it true wat they are saying he says no that he loves me and he is only my man and well i dont really know because well i been with him 4 about 7 months and well he did say 2 be that i should trust him whitch i do and well he only cheated once he told me that and he even told me that he wont cheat on me and he want 2 marry me and he want 2 have a family with me he told me that and well he got me a teddy bear 4 are 7 month of being 2 gether so well the bullies in my school is like keep bring that up because it gets 2 me and i go of in one and they also bring up about my dad because that gets 2 me as well thanks get back 2 me please xx people have been saying in my school that ur boyfriend asked out so many girls and cheating on u is it true because they dont like me but when i ask my bf is it true wat they are saying he says no that he loves me and he is only my man and well i dont really know because well i been with him 4 about 7 months and well he did say 2 be that i should trust him whitch i do and well he only cheated once he told me that and he even told me that he wont cheat on me and he want 2 marry me and he want 2 have a family with me he told me that and well he got me a teddy bear 4 are 7 month of being 2 gether so well the bullies in my school is like keep bring that up because it gets 2 me and i go of in one and they also bring up about my dad because that gets 2 me as well

thanks get back 2 me please xx

]]> By: ferochira http://howtocatchacheater.net/567/is-my-boyfriend-cheating-dreams-signs-hmm-help-please/comment-page-1/#comment-2948 ferochira Wed, 26 Aug 2009 12:29:02 +0000 http://howtocatchacheater.net/567/is-my-boyfriend-cheating-dreams-signs-hmm-help-please/#comment-2948 When one asks outright or is upfront, asks the question openly and leaves no option but an answer, the other is left with no alternative than to answer/deny/confess or leave the one asking insulted, to come to their own conclusions. The hinting and remarking at different opportunities is what will upset him, it's like nagging and will not get you anywhere, so If you can't get that, then stop sleeping with him because your being used,. It may not have started out so, but why is he not living with you by now...kind of suspicious. And forget that "i wouldn't mind" crap, he knows you'd have no choice but to mind, otherwise you wouldn't be asking and after all forgive as you may, you will soon find out it is "you" who end up living with it, not him. And he's not about to give you a never again promise, if he's not caught or doesn't want to give the others up. He may still care but he's not in love. And believe me spirituality comes and goes with ppl, it changes with age and situations, nor can you actually speak for the spirituality of others...especially if he hasn't the curtisy to give you an answer, think of what your saying here, if he's so spiritual then why do you think he's cheating...can't have it both ways, now can you?? The subconscious picks up everthing, but it usually isn't until after the fact, that most women catch on, hindsight being 100%. The very best method is instinct, if a person is not the suspicious type of course. If things aren't adding up then your right. But certainly don't go by his "not talking" because you should know by now most men are "not and never have been" good at communicating, talking about emotions or even not showing them as you say cold and this has been fact since time immemorial, it's the biggest complaint against men. You should be able to pick up on the changes in him, his behavior today, compared to how you've always know him. If it helps any, the average 24yr old male has the maturity level of a 17yr old girl, 26yrs old is the new 21 for men, so i hope your not one who rushed or jumped into a relationship and family if you are then you basically hooked up with a teenager. Not only do they have the highest seperation/divorce rate of all ages, but the main complaint during those ages/relationships is that...they don't help with the house work, the kids, always want to be with friends, don't try anymore, are inconsiderate, irrisponsible, immature, not at all ready to settle down. There's a ton more differences between the sex's than the physical. Women have to at least like a guy, before sleeping with them, where a guy does not, men do not relate sex to love it's women who do that, men and women have different ways of sizing up a mate, men tend to like variety that's where a lot of cheating comes in, men will hold on to a dying relationship for the sex alone, where as women get out when the loves gone, kids are the hardest thing on a relationship so it better be strong and commited before they come along. When one asks outright or is upfront, asks the question openly and leaves no option but an answer, the other is left with no alternative than to answer/deny/confess or leave the one asking insulted, to come to their own conclusions. The hinting and remarking at different opportunities is what will upset him, it’s like nagging and will not get you anywhere, so If you can’t get that, then stop sleeping with him because your being used,. It may not have started out so, but why is he not living with you by now…kind of suspicious. And forget that "i wouldn’t mind" crap, he knows you’d have no choice but to mind, otherwise you wouldn’t be asking and after all forgive as you may, you will soon find out it is "you" who end up living with it, not him. And he’s not about to give you a never again promise, if he’s not caught or doesn’t want to give the others up. He may still care but he’s not in love.
And believe me spirituality comes and goes with ppl, it changes with age and situations, nor can you actually speak for the spirituality of others…especially if he hasn’t the curtisy to give you an answer, think of what your saying here, if he’s so spiritual then why do you think he’s cheating…can’t have it both ways, now can you??
The subconscious picks up everthing, but it usually isn’t until after the fact, that most women catch on, hindsight being 100%.
The very best method is instinct, if a person is not the suspicious type of course. If things aren’t adding up then your right.
But certainly don’t go by his "not talking" because you should know by now most men are "not and never have been" good at communicating, talking about emotions or even not showing them as you say cold and this has been fact since time immemorial, it’s the biggest complaint against men. You should be able to pick up on the changes in him, his behavior today, compared to how you’ve always know him.
If it helps any, the average 24yr old male has the maturity level of a 17yr old girl, 26yrs old is the new 21 for men, so i hope your not one who rushed or jumped into a relationship and family if you are then you basically hooked up with a teenager. Not only do they have the highest seperation/divorce rate of all ages, but the main complaint during those ages/relationships is that…they don’t help with the house work, the kids, always want to be with friends, don’t try anymore, are inconsiderate, irrisponsible, immature, not at all ready to settle down.
There’s a ton more differences between the sex’s than the physical.
Women have to at least like a guy, before sleeping with them, where a guy does not, men do not relate sex to love it’s women who do that, men and women have different ways of sizing up a mate, men tend to like variety that’s where a lot of cheating comes in, men will hold on to a dying relationship for the sex alone, where as women get out when the loves gone, kids are the hardest thing on a relationship so it better be strong and commited before they come along.

]]> By: jadea808 http://howtocatchacheater.net/567/is-my-boyfriend-cheating-dreams-signs-hmm-help-please/comment-page-1/#comment-2949 jadea808 Wed, 26 Aug 2009 12:29:02 +0000 http://howtocatchacheater.net/567/is-my-boyfriend-cheating-dreams-signs-hmm-help-please/#comment-2949 If you have a gut feeling that your man is cheating go with it because 9 times out of 10 its right just like dreams If you have a gut feeling that your man is cheating go with it because 9 times out of 10 its right just like dreams

]]> By: random...(: http://howtocatchacheater.net/567/is-my-boyfriend-cheating-dreams-signs-hmm-help-please/comment-page-1/#comment-2950 random...(: Wed, 26 Aug 2009 12:29:02 +0000 http://howtocatchacheater.net/567/is-my-boyfriend-cheating-dreams-signs-hmm-help-please/#comment-2950 just ask him http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AieJG0TY_DV5IMh0jnVlWKTsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090824153920AA29uMz just ask him
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