Comments on: I suspect my sister is cheating on her spouse, how do I confront her about it?

By: Paul from wisconsin

Paul from wisconsin — Thu, 15 Jul 2010 05:06:05 +0000

why don’t you go out with your brother in law. you seem pretty into him, you stalker

By: Paul from wisconsin

Paul from wisconsin — Thu, 15 Jul 2010 05:03:37 +0000

mind your own business. you shouldnt call your sister, ask her where she is, then jump to conclusions. even if she was cheating, you shouldn’t post something about it online, and you shouldn’t try to run her life.

By: dealingwiththesame

dealingwiththesame — Tue, 13 Apr 2010 01:54:05 +0000

Right now I’m dealing with the same thing, except I have proof. My sister is a newlywed and hasn’t even been married an entire year. I love my brother-in-law and his family and they have been so good to her. I know it hurts like crazy to know that your sibling could do something so awful, but it would be more awful if you told your in-law. My sister was already approached and called out on it by our mother, and now it’s in her hand, as should it be your sister’s. People make mistakes, men and woman, and they’re both “pigs” for it. But stay out of it. There’s no need to ruin a marriage that could be saved.

By: go2seek

go2seek — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 17:22:06 +0000

You know your sister better than we do, and if you think she is the sort to do something like this it might be true. Best course of action has already been suggested, but I’ll repeat it: Talk to her in private. Let her declare herself. After that, leave it alone. If she is taking risks, she is inviting consequences that go with it and is old enough to know better, so let it go. Be prepared for her wrath either way. Remember, you are only a sounding board, not an umpire. Much as it might seem unfair to withhold this from your brother in law, it is unseemly to directly interject yourself in their relationship.
Being family, I think it alright for you to at least ask her about it. As family we are supposed to be there for each other, and sometimes being there is all that is needed to help a sibling through a crisis. Good luck there.

By: i_ate_sponge_bob

i_ate_sponge_bob — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 17:22:06 +0000

There is nothing you can do and you shouldn’t interfere with their marriage anyway.

By: lyn

lyn — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 17:22:06 +0000

stay out of it look after your own life stop worrying about others

By: Paul&Fran

Paul&Fran — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 17:22:06 +0000

Why can’t you ask your sister? Honestly this isn’t any of your concern. Your better off not stirring up a hornets nest.

By: KingAndrew

KingAndrew — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 17:22:06 +0000

Since she is your beloved sister, you pull her to the side and in private you talk to her. Instead of demanding, just tell her about how someone that cheats not only hurts the spouse but the families. Allow her to explain then if needed standby her and offer support, to help her work through her issues. That’s what sisters do. Good luck.

By: joe_fleeman

joe_fleeman — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 17:22:06 +0000

Get proof first then do not tell HER, tell her husband.
If you were in the husbands place you would want to know and so would all these people who are saying not to do anything.

By: Davidm1

Davidm1 — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 17:22:06 +0000

Gotta agree with the others. You’re talking about a suspicion, it wouldn’t matter if you had the video. Mind your own business. The rift you create between you and your sister will be greater than the rift between her and her husband when he finds out.