What are the signs of a cheating boyfriend?
I’m 15 and my bf is 17. He is really sweet but I have been hearing rumors that he is cheating on me. I question him about it everytime I hear something and he gets really emotional and tells me that he loves me too much to ever cheat on me. I love him with all my heart and want to believe but dont really know if I can. Also I feel like our relationship isnt as strong as it use to be.
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From my own personal experience there are alot of different signs. There are the obvious signs like lack of interest in you, in sex with you, spends more time away from you than with you, and then there is the other side of the spectrum where his actions have not really changed but its something you feel deep inside and along with a few suttle hints like strange phone #’s & calls, new friends that you havent met and so, Bottom line is if you think & even worse feel he’s cheating odds are that he is…
I still question myself as to why no matter how many clues & signs are in my face I still held on with the belief that oh its probably just me I’m trippin, well I’m here to tell you as 1 whose been cheated on through a 4 year relationship and an 8 year relationship…..IF YOU FEEL THAT HE’S BEING UNFAITHFUL, NO MATTER WHAT CONCRETE PROOF YOU HAVE CHANCES ARE HE IS…..
Trust me when I say a womans intuition is a wonderful thing we just need to utilize it more often, when I’m smart enough to listen to my womans intuition Im never wrong nor steered in the wrong direction, its when I choose to ignore that intuition is when Im hurt and steered down a long needless path to the enevitability of being hurt.
Good Luck…
You find another girl on the end of his shmeckie.
any excuse to stay out longer, or to avoid you.
usually he has his x in her y no? i think that’d be a pretty definite sign.
Well if you see him talking to another girl a lot, especially if he avoids talking to you about her. If he starts spending less time with you, or doesn’t want to tell you why he can’t do stuff with you. But those would be signs of a guy who’s really bad at lying.
There aren’t any, there are just signs of love and respect.
Signs??? you mean he’s actually posting signs? C’mon, there’s no "indicators". Trust yourself, if you think he is then start asking the questions and I’d personally ask him to show you email accounts and cell hpone calls. If he’s cheating, you’ll know…
Drastic Changes in behavior or looks, new cologne
More concerned about appearance
Starting fights for no reason maybe hoping you’ll end it
Or the opposite of no longer gets upset at things that normally would have
Less time for you, doesn’t return phone calls as much, takes phone calls outside so you can’t hear and say it’s work or something.
Sudden lack of sexual interest
Doesn’t want to spend as much time with you, maybe saying you deserve more time to yourself trying to sound nice
change in his look,
his actions toward you,
making up reasons why he isn’t with you, when before you both were inseparable. Things like that. Anything that seems way out of the ordinary.
He forgets dates, forgets to call, and has really lame excuses for these things. He cannot account for his whereabouts.
If you can, check the "called numbers" on his cell phone, or you can check his phone bill… one number that isn’t yours but is repeated often is probably the other girl.
Not answering cell in front of you… putting blame on you for things… questions of trust issues… lack of eye contact…
Your woman intuition. Changing is a big sign. He doesn’t come home like he use to, he doesn’t take you out like he use to, he doesn’t take his time with you like he use to and he has an attitude all of the time. Some of those if not all are signs of a cheating boyfriend.
Anytime you get a weird feeling about something going on with your boyfriend, it’s a good time to check in with him. Your intuition tells you a lot, UNLESS your the jealous and insecure type, which then it will drive you crazy. Most cheating boyfriends will be out late, leave the room when talking on the phone, lock their cell phones, hide their cell bills, say they are going over to some ones house or out with friends and smell like perfume when they get back or have make up on their collar. You should also take notice if he’s all of a sudden gotten distant or become very very sexual. Some guys try to ease their guilt with distance, while others "get off" on the fact that they have two girls. So be careful. The best thing for you to do is talk to your guy. You’ll know if he’s lying or not and if he is, dump his sorry butt and look for a good guy that will not need to cheat.
Take care!
Check on myspace/facebook for comments to each other. If you KNOW they’re hanging out outside of school, ask if you can come with and see what the reactions are.
If he looks at her in a way he used to look at you, and your friends can tell too. (you’re not just imagining things)
If you ask him to stop calling/talking to her and he doesn’t, get out of that relationship before he breaks your heart.
Suddenly, he starts coming home later than usual. He makes excuses that he’s working late or hanging around with buddies for a couple of drinks after work. Many times he’s telling the truth, but if it happens more often then not, you may have a problem.
You are getting phone calls from women who claim that they work with your boyfriend and have to ask him something important. When he picks up the phone he whispers, or tells that person that he’ll call later.
All of a sudden he starts exercising and his grooming habits have changed.
You find a long blonde hair on the seat of his car.
He comes home late and you feel like "being romantic" and he tells you he has a headache!
He starts bringing you flowers and acts especially nice.
He doesn’t bring you flowers anymore and acts especially mean.
The only way to know for sure, is to catch him in the act. If you really believe your boyfriend is cheating, you’ll have to catch him yourself or hire a private detective.
One especially good trick to try, is to press the re-dial on his phone. It’s sneaky, but effective. You never know whom he may be calling
Any drastic or even subtle change in behavior patterns/ and time patterns…could be a sign.
-Not answering phone
-Not seeing you as often
-Seeming occupied
whatever is out of the ordinary….
he tells that chinese girl slut that he wants to be her boyfriend and then he doesn’t even tell you about it,you find out about it on your own.
GRRRR…
goes to gym alot. (but never used to)
cares more about his appearance than normal…
…or his style has changed drastically
(example. he used be be grunge, now he’s prep)
ignores you when u are together
and isnt into kissing as much anymore.
doesnt listen to you or call you when he says he will.