Why wont my boyfriend have sex w/me?? Is he cheating on me?
when we first started going out, the sex was great. I was his first. we’d always do it and he’d never complain like when i wanted to do it. then i moved in with him and then it was pretty decent, no complains yet. now we’ve been together for almost 11 months, and ive been moved in with him for almost 7-8 months, and lately now he don’t want to have sex when im in the mood. we can always do something when he wants but when i want we cant. and he complains about it. i, personally cant help that i like having sex with him. but its just like he dont want it anymore with me. its like ive had to ask a few times if we could do it on a specific day, and usually that worked, but i felt he was just doing it cause i wanted to, so i would shut up about it. i feel he’s having sex with another girl. ive looked up many times on the internet signs boyfriend is cheating, and those are one of the signs, that his sex life with me changes or something like that. but i just want to know why he don’t want to do it as much anymore. it makes me upset everytime he turns me down, and i usually get upset and cry about it. it breaks my heart. idk whats wrong or whats going on. i cant leave him. i have no where else to go..i moved in with him cause my mom kicked me out, and she was the only family i have up here. i just feel like im stuck, and i feel im getting depressed cause the more i think he’s cheating on me, the more i believe it and the more i get upset and not happy like we used to be. I have no deseases or nothing. He wont even let me get HIM in the mood to have sex with me…. 
somehting is wrong and i just dont know what. —–>if sex dont come naturally, something is wrong <—–.(i read that somewhere on the internet) please help.
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first i will say that it is possible that he is not cheating on you… it could be possible that he has no sex drive at the moment.. i usually have a good sex drive but when i get stressed out i don’t want any kind of sex at all..
you could have a sit down with him and talk about it but don’t blame him for anything you don’t have proof of.. just simply say, hey baby, do you still find me attractive? etc… you really need to express your self.. and tell him how you feel.. with out blaming or making him look like the bad guy.. Communication is the key to a healthy relationship…
Instead of rushing to conclusions surrounding cheating why not actually communicate with him? It seems you’re treating him like your sex slave and are mad he’s actually tired of constant sex. Have a talk with him without accusing him or making him feel like crap. Chances are he’s just tired and doesn’t want to be treated like your personal playtoy.
This happened to me too. Sometimes they need a long break from sex. It take’s a lot out of them.
My ex-bf told me it was healthier for our relationship even though I was confused and still wanting sex.
Sometimes after guys are finished having sex, they look at us different and dont treat us the same.
Dont go crazy, let him do what he wants or he will leave. Give him some space hunny. they love the chase ;]
Yeah, I think you are right on point. Something is not right. If he is always turning you down and not showing an interest in you sexually it could be that he is cheating, or maybe he has lost his attraction to you, I am sorry but it is obviously something going on. Why don’t you just talk to him about how you feel? If he gets all upset and stuff then you know he is cheating.
There is definitely some reason that he’s not happy with you. Maybe it has to do with money or finances. You don’t say whether or not you’re working or how you contribute to the household. If he thinks you’re not pulling your weight then he could feel resentful of you. You need to talk with him and ask him the reason he doesn’t seem as happy with you as he used to be. There is a reason. It might not be that he’s cheating, it could be that he feels you’re infringing on him in some way. Talk to him and ask as soon as possible. Trust. ‘;-()
Thanks! I\’d recommend below short check-list to reveal if he cheats or not. In case at least 5 of signs exist then he\’s 90% cheating.
http://www.myhowtoos.com/en/common-howtoos/55-how-to-know-if-he-cheats
Sounds like you’re very young, and new to sex. That explains your need for it now. As for him, he sounds like he reached that point where he is not infatuated with you anymore. That doesn’t mean he’s cheating, but it does explain why his sex drive has declined. Any married couple will tell you that after a few years the pressures of life become the first priority, and sex is not. Thank god you don’t have any kids yet. Children can make the situation much worse. Please do not try to trap him with a kid, because he will still leave. Go back to you mothers house after the novelty of sex wares off. I think that’s why you left in the first place.
I love sex you should hit me up. =)