If she’s cheating how can you tell?
I have concerns that my wife might be being unfaithful. Here’s why 1. no sex all of a sudden, there is always an excuse. 2. she does’nt call from work like she use to. 3. when she says I love you it sounds insincere. 4. she occupys her time with anything but me. 5. she’s become spacy and distant. 6. she does not give me a kiss goodbye anymore when she goes anywhere. 7. she is not excited to see me when she comes home. These are all things I have noticed and that really suck because I do love her very much. She refuses to tell me what’s up, she refuses marriage counseling. She does work alot. I don’t know what else to do I’ve tried talking and surprises and it seems to do no good. I asked her if she liked someone else which she denied. Are there other signs? What can I do? Please serious answers only, this is the woman I pledged my life to forever and I would hate to lose her over something that I know nothing about.
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Yep. She’s cheating. Have her followed to confirm it. Make sure nobody finds the bodies.
It doesnt’ necessarily mean she’s cheating. She might have something on her mind right now… maybe she’s pregnant? You need to sit her down and ask her what the heck is going on. Tell her what changes in her behavior you’ve noticed.
It sounds like she is a bit depressed give her some cuddles see how this works, take her out and try to discuss the problem. Be gentle with her is she had someone else she would be extra happy for no reason. It sounds like something has happened and she hasn’t found a way of telling you what it is.
I dont know if she is having an affair, but it sounds like marriage to me.
It is something with work , sit her down and talk it out or you will drive yourself crazy !!!
I’m the other man.
She’s cheating……..FACT also check her breath does it smell of spunk when she comes in
For the time being, just be there for her. She could be dealing with something else. Sometimes being a wife, mother, & working full time in & out of the home can be a lot for some women to to handle. Try having a date night, giving her a night to be/fill relaxed & special. Hope this is the case. Good luck!!
I would say that rather than her having an affair, I think she is just really tired. How about you helping a little around the house? When she is doing chores, ask if you can help? You are likely watching TV or reading the paper. If you offer to help, I think she will be much more romantic toward you. Right now you are telling her that you don’t care how hard she works by not helping. Just a thought. Good luck.
sounds like me & my situation..maybe there are other things going on..smetimes there really can be other things going on in one’s mind..those "other things" can interfere with sex..you might try another approach in talking to her..think of something she enjoys doing or going & go from there..good luck..id lovee to know how this works out..
These do seem to be signs of emotional seperation. Your wife appears to be at the least in an emotional affair, which you can learn more by googling emotional affairs for a more detailed deffinition. She may be in it and afraid to come to you and tell you, for fear that you will leave. Which is most likely to be what it is. She has put up an emotional barrier between you and herself, due to the lack of conversations of her hopes dreams and deepest desires. It isn’t easy to break through it takes time. You should decide what you want to do. If you love her, you will have to get her to talk to you more, and answer her with sincere answers instead of "Ok dear" make sure she has your attention. She craves that the most. Most women also like to be challenged in areas she needs improving. Give her feedback. There is no easy fix, other than the participants facing themselves, their fears, and dealing with them. Don’t point fingers. You all ready know, the thing is is getting her to come clean with whatever she is doing. It isn’t easy for a woman to hold on to secret affairs for too long. The marriage can be fixed, it isn’t easy. Find out if she wants to fix it or leave.
What advice would you give your best friend if he told you his wife had that behavior. You don’t want to believe she would cheat, but the signs look pretty dismal. I’d search for clues. Her refusal to work on the marriage is a bad sign, and she doesn’t sound like she is willing to admit guilt, unless there is proof she can not possibly deny. Figure that out first, then see if it is salvagable.
Does your wife work a lot because she wants to or is she the sole supporter of the household? If she is, all of her recent "changes" may be because of resentment.
Her recent changes could be a result of numerous things, what it comes down to is that you two are married & have made a lifelong commitment to love, honor & cherish each other. Hopefully you both can sit down like adults and discuss what’s going on.
Just remember when you do finally sit down to talk, be considerate & understanding, if you start off by saying "Are you seeing another man/woman?" You’re just going to slam the door of communication right in your own face.
You catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar.
Maybe its not cheating…History of depression? Drugs? Or maybe she cheated once and is really killing herself over it. She is definately hiding somehting. Wether it be emotional or physical. Give her time, don’t mention much. She is aware she is hurting you. No one can be that cold. She will tell you soon. Hang in there, you sound like a great catch.
She’s not necessarily cheating. You have just described the way I behave towards my husband when he is being thoughtless about something and I feel at a loss to explain it to him. Maybe she is feeling hopeless about you and not making an effort anymore. Are there any long standing issues between the two of you that you need to resolve? If so maybe she isn’t feeling especially close to you like she once felt. Sometimes women just can’t explain their feelings to a man. No offense, I’m sure you are an intelligent, good man, and you obviously care about her.
Son you already know the answer.