MY WIFE KISSED ANOTHER MAN 3 TIMES is that CHEATING ?
Well the whole thing goes like this. I been with my girl for nine years ever since the first year i have cheated on her, i mean sex with other woman etc etc. i actually can remember at least TEN different girls that i either slept or kissed touch etc while i been with her. it may SOUND funny but all this time i have loved her. in this last two years things got really bad so i started to cheat on her with this other female, the thing went on for like two years (the affair) on top of that i started to put my hands on my Wife. hitting her real bad sometimes. it got to the point that it came from my mouth to tell her (my wife) that i didn’t loved her any more and that i hated her. yes I KNOW im an asswhole. a few months ago we moved to this new place and she started to being a lil bit to talkative with the new neighbor. a man TWICE her age, she is 25. well we were living there for like 5 months and in those five months in the middle of that time . this son of a bi….tch started to tell her behind my back that she deserved something better etc etc, that i treated her bad and that i was cheating on her. by this time I HAVE STOP cheating. so she fell for it and a few days ago she confessed to me that there was this 3 days that she feel really low and unloved by me. and .. she put it like this: the neighbor guy took advantage of her because he knew she was hurt. she confess , well i actually find out and confront her. THAT: he came and kiss her , she said she keep her mouth closed but she did peek him back. right after that she said that this guy rubbed his private part on her leg and told her, "you can have this if you want" that’s when my wife said she told him NO. "I dont want that andyou lll never get this". ok but problem is next day she was feeling low again because i have left to the club with out her and we were fighting bad and i also hit her, so he came and hug her and again this time SHE peek him first. she said on both occasions she felt sorry disgusted and dirty and immediately brush her mouth and even changed clothes, just for a PEEK. the next day this guy came again trying to kiss her but this time she finally told him to buck off and after that she didn’t talk to him or wanted to be around him. i didn’t know nothing of had happened until months later. now my question is. em i lucky that she didn’t took it to the xtreme having all this reasons because she does know i cheated on her and she have been really hurt for that or even tho that’s the case she is at fault and is still was she cheated on me? Should i see it as a lesson to learn and stay with her ? even tho i may sound like a total jerk, after i found out. My heart got crushed and i guess after all this feeling is what i deserve. Please help. im really confused regret full and most of all HURT! I DO LOVE MY WIFE. i always loved her but i have been a stupid cheating husbanded.
By the way, the neighbor guy that was trying to get at her behind my back went and had an accident and broke his leg at work like a month later that all this had happen, by the time his accident happend we have already moved from there. was that a punishment from God because he was trying to break a family apart ?
BUT then again DID SHE CHEATED ON ME ?
OR I AM A LUCKY MAN ?
OR BOTH ?
SHE DID KISS ( ACCTUALLY PEEK)
SHE DID NOT HAVE SEX
YES SHE STILL WANNA BE WITH ME
YES SHE LOVES ME
YES I WILL CHANGE
YES I STARTED TO CHANGE ALREADY AND SHE IS NOTICING IT.
WIFEY SAYS: Im not afraid to leave him, yes i was before, i also was afraid to tell him about that incident. i feel i have been taken advantage by this neibor guy and what i did was a Mistake BUT since i did not have SEX i dont think i cheated, thats my opinion. i feel i had lost my husban love and i fell for that ugly neiborg old man on those two ocassions when we peek. i know my husband have been an aswhole but there have been plenty of good times in those NINE and a HALF Years.
It looks like he made the dessision to change and i hope thats the case.
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I’ll be really surprised if someone bothers to read the whole question and provide you with an answer.
NEITHER, YOU ARE A TROLL
no shit its cheating r u a dumbass….?
i didnt read any of that crapp… im basically answering the question in bold.. and that is YES WAKE UP!
That’s cheating.
you messed up big time you dont deserve her
Try to make yourself a better person.
If you aren’t a troll, good sir then if you love her this what you do:
1. Seperate her from you. Make her go live with her mother/sister/bestfriend for awhile while you
2. Figure out your shit.
3. If she accepts you back then you got on your shit and you did a good job. If not then you didn’t and you don’t deserve her. Give her over a month of seperation.
you’re neither.
you’re a mouth breather.
now PLEASE…put a 9mm in that mouth and air things out.
you just suck ass dude, she should have left you back in year 1
ur stupid and u deserve everything that is coming to you…i hope she breaks up with you.. no women deserves there husbands to put there hands on them… yea that guy is taken advantage of a hurt women… put u really need to grow up.. 1st of all you aren’t going to stop cheating on her.. and 2nd ur not going to stop putting ur hands on her… so you need help..
umm your the ass and she should be leaving you. leave her before you beat her so bad that you kill her. shes 25 stil has gud life ahead of her WITHOUT YOU
hell yeah wouldnt she call it cheating if you kissed anther woman
FIRST OF ALL YOU CHEATED ON HER REMEMBER THAT!!! AND WHATEVER SHE DID EVEN IF SHE DID CHEAT YOU FUC*** DESERVED IT!!! EVEN AFTER BEING ABUSED CHEATED ON…ETC ETC SHE STILL FELT GUILTY FOR CHEATING ON YOU…YOU DONT DESERVE HER AND YES SHE CAN DO BETTER…IF YOU CONTINUE CHEATING ON HER AND TREATING HERE LIKE THIS THEN OF COURSE THE DAY WILL COME THAT SHE IS GONNA REALIZE WAT AN ASS HER HUSBAND IS AND THAT SHE CAN DO BETTER SHE WILL LEAVE/CHEAT ON YOU!!! SO OPEN YOUR EYES B4 ITS TOO LATE CUZ YOU WILL LOSE HER IF YOU KEEP ACTING THIS WAY…AND OF COURSE YOU ARE TOOO LUCKY TO HAVE HER AND U SHOULD BE THANKFUL TO GOD THAT HE GAVE SUCH A GOOD WIFE TO YOU…IF I WAS IN HER POSITION I WOULD HAVE DIVORCED/CHEATED ON U/HAD SEX BEHIND YOUR BACK WITH ANOTHER MAN CUZ U DID IT SO WHY SHUD IT BE WRONG FOR HER TO DO IT/TURNED UR ASS IN TO THE COPS FOR ABUSE!!!! BTW UR A M F ASS****!!!! AND YOU NEED A WAKE UP CALL!!!!
HOW THE FUCK CAN YOU EXPECT TO HAVE HER!!!!
YOU FUCKING ABUSE HER>>>>
fair enough she cheated, you cheated, whatever but just the fact you physically abuse her is a crime you can go to jail…
do you realise just how serious that is??
Yeh u can say u love her but how do u expect her to believe it??
its only words, actions speak louder then words especially when you hit her!!!!!!
shes probably only with you because shes afraid of you.
doesnt it show u the fact she is loyal by telling you how bad she felt & was ‘dirty’?
she regretted it.
if you want to make it up.. sit down ask her how she feels about it all whether she still wants to be together….&& agree not to cheat & abuse her
wow………….. ok……… yeah your lucky alright
but here is a fact you put your mits on her and laid the pipe to some other girl(s) so whatever you should expect she is going to find someone else and she will get her self worth back and when she does its going to be a Great day for her and problably a bad day for you
First you are cheater. Now you have feeling what is hurt of being cheated? This result you desure. No you do not love her. If you love her you will not cheat on her. Once cheater always cheater. You said you slept and kissed more than TEN girl when you have relationship with her. That is very funny. How do you feel if your wife have sex and kiss TEN men???? Let her go to find other man better than you.You will not change.
LOLOLOL FCUK UP!
Yes, she cheated and you are very lucky to have a wife who had enough respect for her marriage not to go further in a situation that could have gotten out of hand. Under the circumstances their are alot of women who also love their husbands but would have still taken the neighbor up on this opportunity to ‘get back’ at her cheating husband. The crushing of your heart is minor compared to the abuse that you have put your wife through. I dont think you know what love is. Love is the greatest thing in life. Walking in love should be our main focus in life. God is love and he wants us to love one another. If you believe that what happened to your neighbor is an act of god, what do you think your punishment will be for all the pain and hurt you put your wife thru?
If i were you, I would start by accepting Jesus as your lord and savior, repent, and begin a new love walk. Always remember Love is action. it is revealed in the way we talk to people, how we treat them, and what we do or dont do for them. Love is patient. Love is not rude. Be hopeful that you will be able to ‘mend’ this relationship. Your wife is going to need some counseling and so will you. Get to the bottom of your infidelity issues and pray that after all is said and done that your wife will forgive you and not leave you.
kissing is not cheating.
actors and actresses kiss each other all the time.
To answer your question, yes she did cheat. I would have to say you are one of the luckiest or blessed dude I know other than myself. I can relate to alot of what you are talking about. Dude if your wife has forgiving you for what you have done and you can forgive her and the both of you can move forward with your marriage then I am with you 100%. Alot of people would think otherwise but having been through some of what you went through i can relate. What you must do now is to NEVER cheat again…treat your wife with some respect and like the queen she is. Love her and take care of her the best you know how. Man I cannot express to you how much I hope you change and love on your wife, she deserves it for putting up with you. I am not trying to be mean or anything like that but sometimes we need people to tell us how it is. You now know how it feels to have someone "cheat" on you and you know it does not feel good at all. As far as God punishing him for trying to break up your family…that may be part of it, but if you were doing what you would should have been doing you would not have to be experiencing this feeling that you are feeling. To sum all this up, you have a very forgiving and loving wife…she loves you the way God loves us…AGAPE LOVE…that is unconditional love, that regardless of what we do, God/your wife loves you…please do the same to her…thank you…oh yeah do not forget to put God first
DUDE. You’re a fucking asshole. She kissed a dude three times–after all that time you were screwing around? I don’t blame her for what she did. That’s NOTHING compared to how you’ve treated her in the nine years you’ve been with her. You’re nothing but a cheating, abusive, mentally-damaged fucktard–you don’t deserve her at all.