My Wife Kissed Another Man 3 Times. Is That Cheating?

Well the whole thing goes like this. I been with my girl for nine years ever since the first year i have cheated on her, i mean sex with other woman etc etc. i actually can remember at least TEN different girls that i either slept or kissed touch etc while i been with her.

It may SOUND funny but all this time i have loved her. in this last two years things got really bad so i started to cheat on her with this other female, the thing went on for like two years (the affair) on top of that i started to put my hands on my Wife. hitting her real bad sometimes. it got to the point that it came from my mouth to tell her (my wife) that i didn’t loved her any more and that i hated her. yes I KNOW im an asswhole. a few months ago we moved to this new place and she started to being a lil bit to talkative with the new neighbor. a man TWICE her age, she is 25. well we were living there for like 5 months and in those five months in the middle of that time .

This son of a bi….tch started to tell her behind my back that she deserved something better etc etc, that i treated her bad and that i was cheating on her. by this time I HAVE STOP cheating. so she fell for it and a few days ago she confessed to me that there was this 3 days that she feel really low and unloved by me. and .. she put it like this: the neighbor guy took advantage of her because he knew she was hurt. she confess , well i actually find out and confront her.

THAT: he came and kiss her , she said she keep her mouth closed but she did peek him back. right after that she said that this guy rubbed his private part on her leg and told her, “you can have this if you want” that’s when my wife said she told him NO. “I dont want that andyou lll never get this”. ok but problem is next day she was feeling low again because i have left to the club with out her and we were fighting bad and i also hit her, so he came and hug her and again this time SHE peek him first. she said on both occasions she felt sorry disgusted and dirty and immediately brush her mouth and even changed clothes, just for a PEEK.

The next day this guy came again trying to kiss her but this time she finally told him to buck off and after that she didn’t talk to him or wanted to be around him. i didn’t know nothing of had happened until months later. now my question is. em i lucky that she didn’t took it to the xtreme having all this reasons because she does know i cheated on her and she have been really hurt for that or even tho that’s the case she is at fault and is still was she cheated on me?

Should i see it as a lesson to learn and stay with her ? even tho i may sound like a total jerk, after i found out. My heart got crushed and i guess after all this feeling is what i deserve. Please help. im really confused regret full and most of all HURT! I DO LOVE MY WIFE. i always loved her but i have been a stupid cheating husbanded.

By the way, the neighbor guy that was trying to get at her behind my back went and had an accident and broke his leg at work like a month later that all this had happen, by the time his accident happend we have already moved from there. was that a punishment from God because he was trying to break a family apart ?

BUT then again DID SHE CHEATED ON ME ?
OR I AM A LUCKY MAN ?
OR BOTH ?
SHE DID KISS ( ACCTUALLY PEEK)
SHE DID NOT HAVE SEX
YES SHE STILL WANNA BE WITH ME
YES SHE LOVES ME
YES I WILL CHANGE
YES I STARTED TO CHANGE ALREADY AND SHE IS NOTICING IT.

WIFEY SAYS: Im not afraid to leave him, yes i was before, i also was afraid to tell him about that incident. i feel i have been taken advantage by this neibor guy and what i did was a Mistake BUT since i did not have SEX i dont think i cheated, thats my opinion. i feel i had lost my husban love and i fell for that ugly neiborg old man on those two ocassions when we peek.

i know my husband have been an aswhole but there have been plenty of good times in those NINE and a HALF Years.

It looks like he made the dessision to change and i hope thats the case.

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