Comments on: boyfriend cheated on me… i'm pregnant?

By: Amira

Amira — Fri, 18 Jun 2010 10:18:24 +0000

I really do feel for you, I am 13 weeks pregnant and have been with my fiance for four years, on Tuesday i found out he had slept with his ex. She is claiming to be pregnant too! we were both virgins when we met and he says he had cold feet about marrying me when he’d never had sex with someone else! He also said he only used her for sex, there was chance for him to use protection but he didnt, because she said she had only 4 days previous finished her period, and that she had a morning after pill she would take after!
I cant believe he was so stupid and that he risked me and my baby catching something. I dodnt know whether to believe she’s pregnant because she said she came off her period 4 days before and also she said she found out just days ago when her next period is not even due for another week yet! He also said it was her who suggested sex and to not use a condom as she doesnt like them! (speaking as a woman you cant even tell if a guy wears one or not, so why not use one?. She even says she has her midwife appointment! she’s only 3 weeks gone! she also said when she went to the doctors they did a blood test? surly the doctor would have told her to wait for her period and come back if it doesnt start? does anyone else think something sounds dodgy? he had been so stupid but she has always been obssesed by him and she constantly has harrassed us texting and stuff. I think my fiance just thought one ‘last fling’ and she was just there. I pray to god that he is not the dad of her baby, if she is even pregnant? I have cancelled my wedding and me and my partner are going to councilling, i dont know if i can forgive him but i love him very much and this is so out of charicter also i have to give it a try for my baby’s sake. Wish me luck! i’m going to need it, what ever you do make sure you get councilling for you and your boyfriend you need to find out why this happened and if you can move on together or appart, i hope we both get our answers because we deserve much better than what our partners have given us. god bless

By: grace

grace — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 08:19:07 +0000

I agree with b2b 5-2-10. that is sick. If my hubby ever did that to me i won’t even think about letting him back. I wouldn’t even want to see him at all. I would have someone talk to him for me for the child support.

By: Alexis

Alexis — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 19:16:09 +0000

I know how you feel my boyfriend cheated on me while I was pregnant also and the girl was secretly living with him… and he told me he told her he loved her. Then had sex with another women a little later with a women in my house while i was here on many occasions. I felt like my world was up side down. Think about it before you take him back you dont want to be one of those women like me that dont think about it, take him back and almost 10 months later your still mad. Trust me you will be still angry.

By: going thru da samething

going thru da samething — Mon, 14 Dec 2009 15:22:45 +0000

Ok 1st off.. im pretty sure you have had the bby now im a little late but if you love this guy and you have a child by him by all means nessacary try nd make it work but on the other had.. im going thru the sam thing im prego, nd emotionally ii need him right now but if i continue to let my guard done he’s gone cont. to run over me nd use it to his advantage “OH SHE GONE FORGIVE ME ND TAKE ME BACK B/C IM HER BBY FATHER” he think he got me wrapped around his finger but honestly he dont ii just want to find away out as of now im not talking to him and im keeping my distance even thoe ii want him just for the sake of the bby.. but for futher more im just gone chill..

good luck with this
Congrats Nue Mommmy..

Keep yah head up even when the struggle gets hard KEEP IT UP..never look down cuhz then he knows yah weakness is him..

By: b2b 5-2-10

b2b 5-2-10 — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 02:54:22 +0000

a 14 year old girl forced a 17 year old guy? wow - he really is full of it huh? if it’s not illegal it should be…i know 14 year old girls that haven’t hit puberty!
i was going to say see if you can work it out until i read the she’s 14 part…that’s sick and he doesn’t deserve you or your baby
you have no obligation to forgive him - i would not personally
is he trying to get rid of you by freaking you out so he won’t have to deal with the baby or break up with a pregnant girl? there’s something wrong with this guy!

get child support and custody - he can’t get out of this that easily…but he doesn’t deserve you or the baby

a baby is NOT a good reason to stay in a relationship - what if this is early pedophilia and he abuses your daughter?
no - a kid is better off with one loving dedicated parent than 2 when one is a bad person

LEAVE HIM

good luck!

By: Rae's Momma

Rae's Momma — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 02:54:22 +0000

Uh..No one forced him, he did that willingly. Leave him, whos to say he won’t do it again? You and your baby don’t need that sh*t.

By: Miss Dannii (",) TTC AGAIN

Miss Dannii (",) TTC AGAIN — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 02:54:22 +0000

Thats awful… How dare he do something like that to you, with you being pregnant. Hun, its up to you whether you want him to have another chance, maybe he will learn his lesson or maybe as they say, once a cheater always a cheater. Its never been done to me so I cant say I know how it feels but I can IMAGINE how hurt you are.

The baby is his right?

Maybe for the baby’s sake you guys can give it another go but he will have a lot of making up to do, a lot of grovelling and a lot of kissing-ass before he can regain your trust.

Good luck…

***** Wow whats with the thumbs down……………….

By: Pumpkin Princess

Pumpkin Princess — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 02:54:22 +0000

For the sake of your baby, give him another chance, but tell him that if he messes up again, his loss!!

By: laurie

laurie — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 02:54:22 +0000

that’s horrible for one the girl is a child that’s the dirtyest part about it! and the fact that you are pregnant is even more horrible. i would not take him back! obviously you need to stay in touch for the baby and i would just wait till the baby is born make sure you get child support and if he wants to be involved with the baby let him. but if you forgive once it usually happens again and the fact hes so young proves he wasn’t ready to settle down. you dont usually stay wit your first love anyway its just a shame you got pregnant so young because now you will be tied to his loser till your child no longer needs looking after and is a grown up. dont let it get to you though and tr not to get too stressed for the sake of the baby.

By: michaelangelo 2 months

michaelangelo 2 months — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 02:54:22 +0000

Just leave him as long as you got family or friends to help with the baby that’s great, i am not with my baby’s dad, but my boyfriend now has been with me threw the whole pregnancy since i was 3months and been there when he was born and my baby is doing good and he is 2months. so i would leave him and later on if he wants to see the baby let him, my ex gave his rights to his parents he don’t want nothing to do with my baby so be careful