how to tell if my spouse is cheating with a co worker?
recently i have felt that my husband is seeing his co worker behind my back he says he has to be to work at 730 in the morning but does not actually start work till about 830am. she is always doing his paper work for the day and he has coffee with her in the mornings. he does not tell me loves me anymore as much as he used to we dont cuddle anymore like we used to. he talks to her more during the day while he is working then he does me. the sad thing is we just had a baby 2 weeks ago and ever since that is when i noticed the change.makes me depressed all the time. hardly spends time with me or the kids. always gets offensive to things that i ask. whats really going on????
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Frankly you have no reasons at all to accuse your husband of cheating. I myself come to work 1 hour early each morning, I chat with my co-workers, I help them with paperwork…that doesn’t mean I cheat with them.
This is not your first child, you know all about postpartum depression. You’re in a difficult phase and you need to rest. Stop worrying about why your husband doesn’t give you attention, it’s probably because your hormones have you nag at him all the time.
Concentrate on that newborn and worry about your husband in 6 months. Now you need to rest and love that baby.
confront him and tell him things need to get back to the way they were.
I couldn’t tell ya if he is cheating or not..but I can tell you that he is feeling neglected by you since you had the baby. You are probably busy doing so much for the baby and being over-tired..that you don’t have as much time for him. This will not last forever. But hopefully he is not turning to somebody else to listen to him and be there for him.
no one can really tell you because no one is sure he is cheating it may seem that way to you but it’s probably not the case. the thing that IS obvious is that your marriage is falling apart and you guys need to work on it or you need to think about what’s best for you and those kids good luck
If you just had a baby 2 weeks ago I think I have a pretty good idea of what is going on and it involves both of you. He is probably using work as an escape from life at home. Men usually do. They are not equipped to deal with the stress of having kids like we women are and a new addition just makes them all the more nervous. It probably only seems bad because you and your hormones are trying to make excuses as to why this is happening-not a bad thing but it does happen. Men are very simple. True they think with the lower region but not as often as we think. They can only really focus on one thing at a time. After having a baby you are probably feeling really yucky about yourself, thus leading to low self esteem which does not help the situation. Don’t jump to conclusions too quickly. Rather talk to him about having him home more often spending time with the kids. I would save the conversation about the lady at work for a later date when there is more evidence against him. Just think happy thoughts and know that "this too shall pass".
You really need to go with your gut feeling. I know you just had a baby and all, but follow your instinct. He may not be cheating, or he may be cheating. I went through the same situation and mine was cheating. I have something else that may help you with your answer too http://www.luvhealsme.blogspot.com
You can probably bet that he is slipping around behind your back. A dead giveaway is he gets offensive to things you ask. Its always been said "the guilty dog always barks the loudest."
I can tell you the signs to look for, when I was a month away from delivering my first my husband cheated with a co-worker.
Is he coming home and acting sweeter than usual offering to do the dishes, and than the next day picking a fight.
Is he going to see friends late at night, or getting strange text late at night and says its from a coworker.
Does he suddenly seem to busy to talk at work?
These are the things my husband did, and to be honest u feel it in ur gut and if u do ur probably right.
Good luck.