When should a husband RUN away from a SEXLESS marriage?
I just want to know; do you think that a man should divorce his wife under the following circumstances? :
If a man’s wife doesn’t want sex with him EVER, and always turns down his requests week after week, then either he’s such a bad disgusting lover that she hates him, OR she’s cheating and doesn’t want to be "unfaithful" to her new lover, and that’s why she doesn’t want to make love to her current husband.
And if a man is married to a woman and she shows absolutely NO desire to want to make love to him and for year after year never has asked him to "go to bed" or "make love", then he might as well just go to the lawyer and sign the divorce papers right now, because she’s all but given up on him anyways and she’s going to soon be cheating on him, even if she’s not doing it right now.
So if you were a man and you lived in such a marriage, and you tried talking to her many times and being nice and kind and caring, and every other possible thing too, yet still no desire on her side; would you prepare for the divorce ?
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If that happened to me, I would run.
I wouldn’t stay in that kind of relationship.
I can’t imagine, that I’d be like that for the rest of my life and then pass away. That’s not a life. It’s a prison sentence, and you’d probably get more sex in prison.
As soon as it becomes evident that sex with her is never going to happen.
Any woman who with-holds sex deliberately like that deserves to get divorce papers handed to her. It is each spouses duty to contribute to a satisfactory sex life, and she is not holding up her end. That nullifies the marriage just as much as cheating would.
Obviously such a marriage has big problems that has led to lack of sex. If they can’t fix those problems that are causing it then they should divorce as a last resort.
I just don’t believe happy marriages would ever be sexless, there’s always a reason, you may think youre happy but obviously she isnt. She probably doesn’t love you dude.
I have a huge sex drive and that would be a serious issue for me too. If the sex is gone, I probably would not want to stay. I need a close physical relationship with my partner to be happy.
Try counseling to see if you can find out what is leading to the no sex. If things don’t improve or she won’t help, then divorce.
well apparently he married a woman he didnt know well..and if he was such a terrible lover she would not have married him..since the divorce can be expensive and lose all he has to this cold hearted bytch..he should find great sex with some hot young thang,,,and come home to his clean house and dinner waiting and say thank you..and have sex with the sexy young thang and live lifethat way ,,get to keep your house and your money..but park his car in some better garage now and then,,
I am not a man but there is something wrong if she doesn’t want to have sex with you. And if you have spoken to her about it and things are the still the same, yes I think it’s time to move on. Sex is a very important part of intimacy in a marriage and when intimacy is lost you mine as well be roommates!
I’d do more than perpare. Sign the papers.
It depends on several factors and would need to be taken on a case by case basis. So many people here prefer a world of black and white, but the world is not absolute.
If the man is sexually driven, he will never be happy.
If the woman has medical issues, some can be treated.
If the woman has psychological issues (depression, anxiety), some can be treated.
If the husband is a poor lover, the woman can teach him.
Maybe she just doesn’t like sex, in which case, with a sexually motivated husband, the relationship will always be full of unfulfilled needs.
It’s up to him, in light of trying everything else, to determine whether the relationship is worth fighting for.
She is forcing your hand to cheat to use it against you in a divorce that she already wants
Barring illness, to deny your partner the comfort of love is a cruelty.
Better to ask yourself, why does she feel the need to be constantly cruel to me?
Yes I would divorce.
Could this be a medical issue on her part?
Nope….I would run…..straight to a counselor. Me and my wife went through this. After seeing a couselor, she is hotter for me now than ever. She just had some issues from her past that she had to deal with.
You took an oath for better or worse. When I was ready to run, I remembered that. Now I couldn’t be happier. Our relationship is better and stronger than ever.
If a person is unhappy in a marriage and you have tried everything then yes it should end. Especially if the man or woman for that matter is contimplating cheating or about to cheat, that means the marriage is over. Sex is important in a marriage, whether people want to admit it or not, lack of it in a marriage can destroy that marriage. A marriage can have so many other good things, but if all needs are not being met, there will be a problem.
ask her why she is doing so and so.open up to her more,ask what she really wants.