How to catch a cheating spouse…. please help me?
Ok, I caught my husband cheating 3 years ago, we worked through it and he promised he would never cheat again.. stupid me believed him, but now, the signs are back… I am a very attractive woman I work out daily.. but he has no sexual attraction to me, he is short tempered with me and the kids and all of a sudden has 4 year end functions that spouses arent invited to, I have no access to his work laptop and I hate snooping… I just need to know, am I paranoid or is he cheating again… I need to move on with my life if he is, I have spoken to him he says there is no problem in our relationship and gets all hurt, indignant and angry when the topic is raised… he wont even greet me when I get home from work and vast amounts of money is going missing.. am I paranoid?
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phone calls on his cell phone is a good give away. laptops sometimes tell a lot. smells on his clothes work best. womens perfumes stay on clothes for a long time… even the smells on his hands will tell.also a man that is usually talkative but has quit talking can be a sign.men like to keep secrets but we arent too good at it.look into his wallet for condoms too..a dead give away…good luck.hope this helps
this is why people should never take back a cheater. Your trust will never be back at 100%. even if he is not cheating, your trust for him is so weak that the marrige will just fail anyways.
not paranoid. maybe some counseling would help him open up to you. there’s nothing wrong with snooping if the signs are there. just prepare yourself for whatever may come. do what you must, best of luck to you.
I am wondering why you care if he isn’t attracted to you and is mean. But anyway, it is easy to catch a cheating spouse, and you don’t have to get into his laptop. Just tell him you have to be out of town, or will be busy some evening an then hang around and follow him if he goes out.
Your first mistake was taking him back. Why would you do that? You know they don’t change.
Set up hidden surveillance cameras. Catch the jerk and divorce him and take everything he’s got with the evidence.
No, you’re not paranoid. You might watch for little things - is he hiding his cell phone? Is he on the computer a lot? But you know what? You don’t need evidence. You can just say, "Well, there is something wrong here and if you don’t know what it is, maybe it’s time we considered a split." If the relationship is bad and you don’t feel like he’s watching your back, you can just run with that.
The sad part is that you have to find out the hard way that your husband no longer likes what is between your legs…he found something better.
Hire a private investigator. Why not? Feel guilty about spending the money? You just said yourself that vast amounts of money is going missing. If he’s out there wining and dining other women, you have a right to know. You have a right to make an informed decision to end your marriage or make any changes you see fit. Hire someone and find out once and for all.
P.S. Don’t forget to take the cheater to the cleaner when getting divorced.
Well if i were you i would call his work to find out about the functions that he has to atttend are and if they are as he says no spouses and 4 of them. Just casualy speak to someone at his work and say that he has another function to attend and you need to clarify that they dont overlap, its easy and also not to suspisious from his works point of view (because its a known fact men cant rember dates) if its all legit then speak to him and ask him what is going on it could be financial stress or something else making him act like that.
If you catch him in a lie confront him on it kick him to the curb and move on with your life. If you want the answers you’ll have to find them out yourself because obvioulsy he is not very forthcoming.
Call cheaters they will hook you up besides if you are having doubts you may want to see a marriage counselor.
Eep. Sounds bad. If I were you, SNOOP. Check his email, talk to co-workers he works with that you trust, take a day off work and follow him, check his phone, trace his transactions. Yes…all of the above does sound stalker-ish and crazy, but if you need to know, you need to know.
But, you could also just leave him because he treats you like crap. You deserve better.
maybe you should keep an eye on your online banking?
i don’t catch on well either~ you’re not alone, but i think he maybe is. sorry.