Is she cheating on me or am I reading the wrong signs??
I’VE BEEN CHEATED ON B4,AND AS ALL VICTIMS O0F THAT ACT WE KNOW THAT THAT IS A FEELING YOU NEVER 4GET.AM I RIGHT?SO RECENTLY I BEGINNING TO FEEL THAT SHE’S UP TO SUMTHIN.JUST 4 ME (US)2B ON THESE COMPUTERS ASKING EACH OTHER IF OUR SIGNIFICANT OTHERS R CHEATING IS SIGNS ENOUGH AREN’T THEY?WE ALL KNOW HOW WE WERE IN THE BEGINNING OF THE REALLATIONSHIP,THINGS CHANGE BUT HOW DO THEY GET TO THE CHEATING PART?SHE’S CORPORATE AND I KNOW FOR A FACT WHAT GOES ON IN THERE!!!!!!!!!!I HOPE YOU ALL DO TO.MEN AND WOMEN ALIKE.CORPORATE THEY SPEND MORE TIME 2GETHER IN THE OFFICE THEN ON THE WEEKENDS WITH THE SPOUSE!!AM I RIGHT?I DON’T HAVE ANY DESIRES FOR ANY OTHER WOMAN AT ALL,HOWEVER IF SHE IS THEN I’M AT THE POINT IN MY LIFE WERE I AM MATURE ENOUGH TO B TOLD AND I’LL WALK AWAY LIKE A MAN.BUT FOR IT 2B DONE BHIND MY BACK!!!!???THIS IS MY FIRST QUESTION BUT I DON’T WANT TO BELIEVE THIS IS HAPPENING TO ME.I JUST CAN’T SHAKE IT THOUGH.WHOEVER IS READING THIS PAY ATTN.CUZ IT’S MORE.I CAN SHARE SOMECLUES
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she is ..follow her she is probably doing it with your best friend
if she aint, she should be, you’re wacked
You will recieve better answers if you type in English and not in all capital letters. I guarentee it!
If you dont trust her, what good of a relationship is it?
ask her.
Go with your instinct. When she’s not home, search through the history of the computer, which is located in the tool bar under history.
Good luck.
Can we say paranoid for no reason? You didn’t list a single reason why you think she is cheating on you!!!
Well know because i thoght the same thing but at the time i was asking him he always say no but now i just let it go and forget about my sign cause it not really true.
if u feel something isn’t right then listen 2 yr heart and mind. they know the truth. sometimes u have 2 set someone up 2 know the truth.
You seem to be controlling, suspicious and jealous.
Plus, your question was WAY too long and incoherent.
Maybe you should go to couples’ counseling.
U should tell us something about what she does which makes U feel like that and U know her well. If ur mature enough then just go and ask her straight forward wether she wants U or not.
u need to get a head check because if she is cheatin u are the one that make her do it check u self befor u wrick u self.
maybe. dont trust.
i think that you have been cheated on and your just to afraid that it will happen to you again, so your not giving your trust out to anyone right now, but at least try to trust her. but if you can’t trust her at all then why are you still around her i think that you should leave her and go to some other people that will love you and that you can at least trust them you know. but first before you do anything find out the facts first before your action…OK take care
To tell you the truth.. you could be right. BUT::: think on this… if you are, could it be that your suspiciousness has pushed her to it? "If I’m gonna get accused, I’m gonna do something to be accused of"… Now, I’m not saying that is the case always.. There is absolutely NO excuse for cheating, but there are sometimes reasons that a person would. Think about it, then talk about it honestly. Get it straight with her, or you’re going to drive yourself nuttier….
well if she is just leave here.just ask her that are u cheating on me.
HMMM well as a female this advice may sound a little crazy but you need to give her suprize visits check her cell phone for any repetetive numbers……when she says she is staying late at the office pop up and bring her dinner…..this may sound a little physco but most people will not openly admit they are cheating until you bust them…..I am very sorry and best of luck..whatever you do ..do not jump to conclusions there is nothing a women hates more than an insecure man…and make sure she doesn’t know you don’t trust her because if you are wrong she’ll be very hurt….protect your heart though you have every right…GOOD LUCK…
there’s nothing wrong with bein concerned. is she too complicated to conversate with? sit her down and talk to her. ask her, dont tell her what you think because then, she may think you’re trying to accuse her. let her know how you’re feeling. make it seem like it’s a convo. to clear your mind of what you’re feeling and not to see if she’s cheating. i’ve been in the situation and took my above advice and was throughly convinced that I was not right. u can email me if u want, i’d love to convo. pooh_bloody_Fem@yahoo.com
I think you are insecure because of past relationships you have been cheated on.I honestly think that if you have a feeling that she is cheating on you,you should just ask her face to face if she is cheating or not.And if she is not cheating just talk to her and tell her how you feel,don’t keep things bottled up.
I would ask her and if she says she is not cheating, then you have no other choice but to trust her until you see it for yourself. No one ever gets away with cheating so if she is, it will come to the light regardless. You will find out if she is regardless. Pray to God to show you if she is cheating on you and you will get an answer. Good luck. It always work for me.
you just have to trust her don’t follow her and stalk her just trust her and sit her down and talk to her about it. If she is then she will get really offensive and say in a stern or sweet voice "i would never do that to u, i love u to much baby" then she probably is but if she just says i kdon’t know what makes u think that and if u trust me u won’t think it any more but i will do everything i can to change that. i think that she isn’t if she says that. just becareful don’t lose a good one. Best of luck.
Okay, firstly what makes you think that she is cheating? There must be particular reasons you feel this way that are justified. I don’t agree when you say that corporate people are more likely to cheat coz they work close together. Many people work together and nothing happens. Purely being ‘corporate’ is a big stereotype!!! You have been cheated on b4, so I would say there is a sense of paranoia there. I have been in ur gf’s position (in the sense where ive been distrusted) but for no valid reason. And let me tell you now, it sucks heaps. You really need some good reasons for looking at her in the manner in which u r, and let me tell u things arent always as they seem. It could all be legitimate. If there are ‘clues’ write them, and il give u my opinion.
MOST TIMES WHEN YOU THINK YOUR MATE IS CHEATING SOMETIMES YOU ARE RIGHT. BUT YOU NEED TO SEE FOR YOURSELF BEFORE YOU ACCUSE THE OTHER PERSON.GO TO PERSON WITH YOUR EVIDENCE AND SEE THEIR REACTION. YOU DON’T WANT TO APPROACH HER WITH YOUR ACTUATION’S(HOPE THIS WORD IS SPELLED CORRECTLY) UNLESS YOU HAVE PROOF. SO BE SMART ABOUT AND IF THEY ARE CHEATING ITS TIME TO DISMISS THEM SO YOU CAN FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL NOT CHEAT ON YOU.
You need to talk to her let her know your feelings!!!!!!!!!!
If you can’t trust her you don’t have a very good relationship…… If your going to start spying on her you do not have a good relationship move on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
asking her is not the way to go if you want to know if she’s cheating because she can always tell you what she thinks you want to hear. you are going to just have to start doing a lil digging to find the truth. it always helped me when i got that feeling and never was wrong. good luck and i’m sorry if you find that she is
Sounds like it’s more a problem with you trusting her. If you don’t trust her then what’s the point of the relationship. There’s nothing if you don’t trust her.
Sounds like you a bit unsure of your relationship in the first place, and if you not then you need to make up you mind. Corporate people spend alot of the time at the office, I agree, but they working not going there to have a fling. In any relationship communication is the essential key, so talk to her, but don’t accuse her of something when you don’t have any proof. Sounds to me like you should rather just move on in your life. You must learn to trust people bec without trust you won’t be able to be with anyone and be secure.
I’ve been cheated on, and agree it’s not a nice thing, but you must realise you better than that and deserve better as well. You can’t judge others for one persons mistake.
the best thing you could do is chill!! jus ask her if there is someone else shes got her eye on!! dont accuse her of anything unless you can prove it! understand???? good luck babe!
i don’t think you should worry to much about whether she is or not, your problem is you think she is because of signs you see, you should look to the qaulity of your relationship, if it is good for both of you (ask her if it is for her) then assume it is just you being mistrustfull because of what happened before, if it is not then work on it together until it is or until you both decide it never will be. If you find that your relationship improves and you are both happy ( remember to always work on it ) don’t ask if she was cheating assume she wasn’t or you will drive yourself nuts, and be glad that it works well now.
well u do not know for sure so keep ur eyes open an chck for the right signs an she wrks for a big company she will be at wrk alot to ry an get it done right when she is off yall spend time together an as her being in big business that what happens spending alot of time in office but don’t take it bck to to b4 when things happen just give benifet of doubt
Seems that u are a little insecure & maybe even jealous because she is working corporate. Being corporate doesnt mean that there is an orgy going on in the office.For a office to function effectively the workers have to have a good relationship with each other but that dont mean that sex is involved.If she has to be at work then she has to be.Work pays the bills & if she is corporate then its her job.Accept it.If whenever she comes home from work especially after putting in extra hours, u are there all suspicious, accusing her & sulking or behaving like an idiot, then she will cheat on u or leave u or even spend more time at the office. Remember,she has her own paycheck & doesnt need that extra stress at home. When she gets home she needs to unwind with a nice hot bath, a massage from you,some gentle music…use your imagination…give her a reason to want to spend time with u.