catch a cheating spouse?
I am 99.9% sure my wife has been cheating on me. Im 99.9% sure the proof is on myspace. Any suggestions or helpful tips? Im not asking you to tell me anything illegal. Just asking for tips and suggestions on how to get the proof. You could always send me a private email…same as my user name…
im 99.9% sure my wife is cheating. i just need the proof. I am in iraq so theres not all that much I can do. She has been randomly spending money. She changed the password on her myspace. So i know thats where the proof is. But i dont know what the answers to her security questions are. I confront her and she gets real defensive and denies it. She lies about every little thing. I know this because they all eventually catch up with her. The proof is in her myspace….help me out so i can put my mind at rest…
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confront her, don’t sit there and put up with that, you are a man, take charge of the situation, wow what has manhood come to?
confront her and check the history of your computer
shes just flirting and dont go to her myspace ,
confront her about it and if you feel that strongly that she is you need to act on it leave her ask her why you know talk to her friends see wat they know
Try this and a private detective, my sis used pne, they bring all the evidence to you.
http://www.webwatchernow.com
oooo cheating spouse huh well go into her myspace type in her username which is her email then put forgot password it’ll be sent to her email then go to her email and try to guess her password since she’s your wife you’ll know her birthday and username and zipcode and whatever secret question it has eee good luck
well now you 99.9% know that you are not wanted so why don’t you leave.
Generally cheating spouses have a multitude of behaviors that indicate cheating:
Change in schedule
Possessiveness about their cell phone
Unexplained or poorly excused gaps in their schedule.
Work obligations may increase markedly without any change in positions.
You may not a loss of interest in sexual intimacy with their partner or an increase in interest - seemingly motivated by guilt.
There may be interested in different sexual acts of styles.
New interest in grooming or new clothes
Now the easiest way to know what goes on with her computer time is to install a keystroke recorded on the computer she uses at home. If she does he myspace visits at work then you might not find out but rarely are employers eager to have workers on social networking sites.
Of course you could just confront her with your suspicions.
Best of luck
try this go to your ( her) e-mail page. then press ctrl and h a few times. H is for history, it will show you everywhere your computer has been day to day, you can then click on them and go right where she has been. Also try Spoof.com you can call her and have the caller ID come up any number you choose, they offer a free trial and if you pay you can even change your voice. Good Luck
Confront her. Or create a page and send her some messages to see if she cracks.
You need to remind her how much you really love her.
Make her feel bad about what she may be doing.
I don’t understand how you could be sooo sure. Just because a guy says something flirty to a girl doesn’t mean shes saying that kind of stuff back.
Maybe you should speak to her about how this is affecting her becauase you’re not the only one suffering.
She needs and wants you home because you are her everything, Being her husband means a lot to her. Now how would you feel if she was out and you were at home. completely different things to think about. just consider that for a moment.
than consider how you may feel if you were her. I don’t know just something you should think about
confront her on it. Unless you hack her account there is no 100% way to know
well, you are not really saying much just saying that you know and you are 99.99% sure. I mean if it is on myspace what is it that you want to do? I know it is pissing you off and everything. If it was me … I would have a female/ male friend that is back where she is that can check that out for you. you know spy on her a little bit. and have them to inform you through mail or whatever. you know take pics follow her around but not someone who will tell her or pay for a provate investigator someone to research this for you. I know one thing. as far as money is concerned. I would set up an allotment for her exspences for the month. but dont just give her 100% direct use of your account. I mean if you have kids do what you have to do talk to your commander let him know what is going on and your concerns so that he can help you. and what do he think is the proper amount you should leave in there the account. you can leave enough for food and bills or find a way to pay the bills yourself online leave her like maybe 2-3 hundred dollars if you want to leave for her to spend to enjoy herself. you can set up allotments to all the bills for automatic draft from your account. I used to be in the military myself. if you would like to discuss further you can email me at my yahoo for more info . same as my name too. i wish you the best. but start to make an allotment out for yourself in a diffrent account and change your pass words to everything. if you feel like you cant trust her with you then you wont be able to trust her with anything at all and you dont want all of your money to go to waste by her spending it all . you are the one doing all the hard work over there dont allow yourself to come back with no money in your account and then you will be pissed.
create your own myspace and request her as a friend. You could have one of your friends (who she doesnt know) take a pic and make a fake profile. request her, and if she adds you, you will see what she has in her profile.
I have a real issue with men and women being cheated on while defending our country. I have a myspace page. Email me and tell me if you want my help.
Every story about it I have heard really p!sses me off. One could be shot and die while the spouse is having an orgasm. Sick.
EDIT: I read your questions and frankly, maybe just let her have the car and move on. You guys gave up on a relationship a long time ago.
Interesting, your previous posts don’t match this new one. This one makes you look like you care about her. Do you ? Or are you just trying to catch her cheating so you can get the divorce papers ready? I am not sure how you can have a marriage if you live at opposite ends of the country, Texas and Wisconsin. But now that you are deployed you check her myspace page - why ???
There are many ways to find out what she is doing , friends, phonecalls at unusual times, checking her cell record, getting your own myspace account as someone else and adding her as a friend, keeping track of the spending, and so on..
Most important though :will you be upset or elated when you find out? Is that not an issue you might want to address when you are back from Iraq ? You are too far away do do anything now, you can not even see her face and gestures. Talking on the phone is not going to cut it in this situation.
The whole military cheating thing goes both ways by the way , and it is sick both ways, sure you’ve seen and heard plenty of it yourself.
I’ve seen enough in my 15 years as an Army wife, and I know that you need peace of mind and that you want it right now and deserve it right now as well, and she should have the decency not to cheat on you .
But your marriage sounds like it is on its last leg. Military marriages have to endure a lot and if you have a bad one you won’t be able to survive a blow like this or solve anything from where you are right now, but you know that already I think .
If she has her password changed there is not much you can do unless you can answer her security questions, or have her password sent to her e-mail , in which case of course you need to know the password for that as well! I don’t think anybody can answer your question for you , something that will surely drive you crazy, I’m sorry about that !
Good luck in Iraq, try to stay safe and sane, and rethink your approach, cooler heads prevail !!!
If you are in Iraq then how can you possibly be 99.5% sure? i think shes been talking to people on a social network site - which is completely harmless and actually fun and does not mean shes having an affair.