your take on this situation?
my freinds husband just served her with divorce papers and took her car , phone , and half the money in accounts . (she was having a to close relationship with a mutual friend of theres - talking on phone meeting each other ect.) she doesn’t work they have 2 kids nder 3 years old .his lawyer told him he cannot kick her out of the house so my question is
1. do you thing it isn’t fair that you can’t kick your spouse out of the house ?
2. should he have to pay child support to her if she was cheating and broke the marriage ? ( keep in mind he just signed a deal that made him pretty well off a month ago i’m talkin over 5,000 a week ,so support will be real good money
hope i explained it well if you need further details i will answer them
i just don’t think i could be made to live with someone who was cheating on me and can’t do anything about it mind you he he still has to pay all the bills for her
3. she wants to continue to see this other guy do you think that will affect custody for her ?
they are actually renting from his family they don’t own a home
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1..With 2 kids under 3 no it isnt fair to be kick out of the house.
2.And yes he should have to pay child support its not the kids fault she cheated so why take it out on them.
it depends, if the state is a dower state or not if it is she gets half no matter whos fault. if it is’nt he may still have to provide something, depends on a lot of what ifs
The child support is for the kids and not her. If she has the kids he has to pay support. The house is a marital asset and is not his house alone. It is partly hers also. If she is keeping the kids she needs a place to stay with them. This might not seem fair but it is how it is. Hanging out and talking on the phone is not really cheating.
As for Child Suport–well, that is for the kids. Yes he should have to share the financial burden of his own kids.
I think she messed up and he has a right to divorce her. She probably screwed herself out of alimony but what she did has nothing to do with her babies, they will still get money from their dad. I wouldn’t want my man to stay in the house if I found out he was cheating. It wouldn’t be safe for him here!!!
whether she cheated or not he will have topay child support, child support is for the CHILD. alot of people dont understand that.
no it’s not fair, why doesn’t he pursue full custody of the kids….that might solve the support issue and keep the kids protected from all ther "boyfriends" that she might parade around.
I think she needs to speak to a lawyer, get childcare and most of all GET A JOB.He will have to pay child support when they divorced ,but that doesn’t mean the money is for her personal leisure-it’s CHILD support-for the children’s needs.
I don’t think its fair to just kick a person out if they have been living there. That is their home. Now there should be a time limit on how long she can stay. Just long enough to get on her feet. Because she caused the demise of the marriage I would assume that she would not be entitled to spousal support. So he should fight for that. As far as child support if she has primary custody of the children she will get child support, as well she should because she is the primary caregiver for the children. Now he can try to get primary custody of the children, in which case she would have to pay child support. And if he feels like that is something he can handle, than he should. He shouldn’t feel intimidated by the courts because the judgements really don’t always favor the women. Usually when they do favor women its because the men don’t show up or they are f’d up. The deal that he signed was that for alimony to her or was that something he got from work? If it was for work I imagine that he would have to spend a lot of time there and the courts my see it difficult for him to take care of two small children primarily. There concern would be the children’s stability. But again I say he should fight for it. Good Luck
If she has the kids then he should NOT kick her out of the house esp. with two kids and yes he should pay child support to his children(even tho she cheated as you said) The kids in any divorce are the victims, they are innocent and it is not their fault their parents don’t stay together. It may be that they could sell the house or the other could buy the other out. In any case, usually the spouse with the children is (most of the time) given the opportunity to stay in the house with children. I know divorce laws are not always fair but then again that is the laws .
He can kiss that 5 grand a week goodbye. She’ll take him to the cleaners.