How do I leave my relationship, he is soooo cheating??!!?
Ok my partner is showing all the signs of cheating and I think he has cheated behind my back in the past too.. It’s only now i’m finding everything.. He has a PIN number for his messages on his phone aswell… Everytime I say I’m gonna leave cause i’m unhappy he starts hugging me saying how much he loves me and how he’ll never let me leave… If i’m seeing the signs, why won’t he let me go?? This is my first serious relationship and it hurts that he could do such things.. I gave up alot for him too. I keep finding dialled numbers on his phoned which are unsaved and turn out to be women.. I hate this!! We also live in a small town as I moved to be with him.. At first I didn’t want to come, but then he started crying for us not to end.. I just felt very unsure as I knew i’d find something I didn’t like. What should I do..?? He’s either single or he’s not!! He can have friends who are girls, but if he doesn’t introduce me?? I know no one here and it sucks!! Nice answers please.
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I think he loves u coz he doesnt want to lose you..but his love for you is not enough to keep away his roving eyes from other women..Give him ultimatum,if he still continue then its time to drop him .
your are a smart, intelligent person.
Read your question yourself and you can see the answer for yourself.
Sometimes the obvious things are to obvious to see the first time
You said it yourself, "he can either be single, or he is not". Well then why listen to his crying and pleading? He does this because even though he may still want to be with you, he will only do it if he can have his cake and eat it too. This is what he wants and you are allowing him to get it. You can’t trust him and a relationship without trust is a waste of time. He will only bring to you heartache, disappointment and pain. Why put up with it? It is obvious you are not getting any happiness from this relationship, and even if you are sometimes happy, the bad out weighs the good. I would end it and give myself a chance to find someone who does not cheat.
why should he let go of a sure thing when he can have you and mess around too why would he let you go? It is not up to him it is up to you. If you are so unhappy and he continues to cheat, why are you not listening to your own heart and leaving him? You should stop listening to his lies and get out now.
he is a narsissist and you will only get hurt if you stay with him. he probably needs all kinds of women to boost his ego.
sorry.
Trust is a necessary part of a relationship. You don’t trust him, there must be a reason. My husband cheated on me, a lot. I ignored the signs because I was so in love with him. When I finally did leave, he cried. I cried. It was one of the hardest things I ever did. You need to evaluate your relationship and where you want to take it. Noone can do that for you.
" its better to be unhappy and alone then unhappy with someone else"
if you feel unsure and it sounds like you do then i think its time to take a break from him for a while, it sounds to me like he KNOWS he can cheat because whenever he cries you decide to stay with him. I say leave and see what he does when he knows you arent going to give in. Let him think about what hes been doing to you.
Honey, and this is hard – but listen to the old Paul Simon song – 50 ways to leave your lover.
You pack your things, load your car, get in, and drive away. That’s how.
Then you make it stick by not returning texts, phone calls, emails, letters, whatever. No contact whatsoever with this guy. Just drop it and leave.
Oh of course, he’ll cry, beg, plead, promise – whatever it takes to push your “pity and sympathy” buttons to get you to come back. Don’t believe it for a minute.
See, he has you right where he wants you – isolated from your family and friends; keeps you dangling on a string that he pulls and jerks at his fancy; keeps you on edge all the time. I bet he tells you all this is “in your mind – that you’re imagining things…” as well. Well, dear one, these are all signs of a controlling, abusive man. It’s just a matter of time when he’ll start to check the mileage on your car, dictate who you can and cannot hang out with, and blame you for everything that isn’t exactly perfect between you two. Then it escalates into violence – first verbal abuse, then it’s the shove and push, then it’s a black eye ….
Get the picture – it doesn’t get better – it only gets worse.
So hop on the bus, Gus. Make a little plan, Stan. You don’t need to be coy, Roy….
Get out of there. Leave – make it stick.
he is acting like a little boy crying even when he has done wrong consistently,your threats have not worked honey ,now you have to take action for a stress free life to be with somebody who’s actions and words say they love you good luck and blessings
Wow…nothing you said shows that he may be cheating on you. i have a pin number for my messages and he begged you not to leave…thats what people do when they don’t want you to leave…what? You have a bunch of what ifs…your trippin
Sweetheart, I’m confused? If he’s cheating on you why do you stay? What is really making you stay - is it him crying or are you scared to leave? I’m just really confused.
Why can’t you leave? My thing is you either like him cheating on you or you don’t? Its not that much begging in the world to make me stay and risk my health to be with a man that is with other women and I know that he is with other women,,,,, so what he begs you to stay….shoot I would too if I could have my cake and eat it to…duhhhhh
Sweetheart, wake up to reality! Yes, you are hurting but are you ready to leave? Are you fed up or just tired thinking that he will eventually change and leave the others alone? Its your choice and your feelings…..if you are truly tired of the lies and deceit - then you answered your own post - LEAVE!! Nothing is holding you back but more lies that you are believing……
u made d mistake in d first place buy living with him,but anyway my advice to you is quit d relationship and don’t listen 2 him. Yes, each time u want 2 leave him, he keep tellin u he loves u cos of what he is gaining from u.I bet u he’s gonna dump u d very day he’s satisfied wit u
Babe shine ur eye!!!
Well, if he loves you (and if he is in love with you), he won’t cheat. There is no middle ground here. I think less people would cheat if they knew they would never be able to get away with it. So you can choose to do 2 things:
* Confront him. Tell him that you are feeling isolated and you want to meet all his friends-male and female-since you are alone. If he says no, you have got the answer. Just don ‘t make it sound like you are suspecting or you know. Put him in the impossible situation. If he prefers secrecy over your happiness, you have got to kick his a..
* Or go out, go about, make lots of new male friends (or at least pretend to have them)and apply the same weird secrecy level. Let’s see how he is going to act.
I am sorry about being harsh but I absolutely hate cheaters and I don’t believe love and sleeping around don’t go hand in hand.
correction:
…don’t believe love and sleeping around go hand in hand.