What should i do if i suspect my neighbours spouse of cheating?
should i be spying on him to see if its true before making any move? or do nothing?
had been suspectin g him since long time but a few days back when i was out at night, i heard him talking on the phone at around 11 pm or so (he didnt realise i was there_, he was like "should i come at the same place or somewhere else", i heard a womans voice at the back, and as soon as he saw me he changed his words and said "should i bring the file"
thing is that he has got no business with files cause he has some welding business.
i knew it beforehand everyone is going to say "mind you own business" but the thing is that you cant ignore such thi ngs when they happen in front of your eyes, and the guy doesnt even know how to hide it!
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look for other signs…cheating is not right!
None of your business.
I think you should mind your own business.
Mind your own affairs and let them handle their owns lives.
Mind your own.
As for files, every business generates reams of paperwork.
Files are essential.
Mind your own business unless you are specifically asked. Don’t draw conclusions this is someone’s marriage, you better be right.
MInd your own business.
Nothing, this is none of your business. It will only get you into trouble. Let them do their thing and figure out their problems. You focus on your family and don`t be spying on other people`s lives.
Nothing. It’s none of your business.
Mind your own business, not someone else’s.
You should consider getting your own life to be mindful of.
MYOB
not your place to say a word…
I’m so glad my neighbors aren’t as bored as you are. They don’t care about my life & vice versa.
His wife should be the one spying on him , and not you. If she does not mind him taking his cell calls outside then thats her problem.
of course it isn’t your place to become involved in any way,shape,or
form all you can do is be glad he’s not your man.let your mind
concentrate on something that’s better for you than your neighbors
problems
mind your business
Mind your own business or you could wind up in a bad situation.. Go to the library and check out a good book to read in your idle time.
I have a standard neighbor rule that I try to follow;
Keep your nose on your side of the fence and I will keep mine on my side of the fence.
this way no one ends up with a bloody nose.
You should do nothing. Don’t read to much into what you saw or heard. Your interpretations are based on suspicion, not fact. The suspicion will cause you to have ’selective perception’ so any of his behaiors will look suspicious. He could have been talking about a file used for filing down a metal piece, etc., similar to one used in filing one’s finger nails. I’d stay out of the matter since it could cause a lot of problems for the neighbors…and they will both resent you.
um i dont think you should do anything. he really couldnt be cheating. maybe he was planning something i mean he could have been gambling anything its unfair to jump tp conclusions. maybe it was something illegal he wasnt suppose to be doing. but sometimes, its right infront of the wife/gf face if he is cheating and she refuses to see it. but also, it can seem nosy and although you might want someone to tell you, they do say ignorance is bliss. so i mean its her life. its not up to you to right the wrongs or bring them to light. just let whatever will happen happen. dont get in the middle of it cuz chances are you might wish you hadn’t. well, eventually she wil find out if she really wants to. anything done in the dark comes to light. and if you do anything long enough you will get caught. i promise you that one. so just let it go.
–jazzie
This is none of your business. You don’t know what the specifics are, or what their relationship is like. Maybe they have an open marriage and she is also seeing other people. Maybe she knows about the infidelity but has decided to turn a blind eye to it, whether it be for the sake of the kids, or not being able to afford to go out on her own, or because she loves him.
Also maybe you simply misunderstood the conversation. He could have changed what he was saying because he plain old didn’t want you listening. What if he was planning a surprise party for his wife and didn’t want you hearing about it? Also, all businesses have files! Stay out of your neighbor’s affairs.
What were you doing out at night? What were you doing out at 11pm? Was he spying on you??? How could you be that close to him to hear the other person on the phone? Is his wife watching you through the upstairs window thinking that you two are meeting in the yard? Damned woman, get a life. Leave this poor man alone. How do you know he’s trying to hide anything? He may have been out waiting for the dog to pee for all you know, or do you know exactly what time their dog pee’s too. I don’t care if took a dump in the front yard right in front of you. It is none of your business. You are what my Grandma used to call a "Busybody" who minded everyone’s business but their own. You had better stay inside and take care of your own business before this man takes a restraining order out on you or reports you for stalking. He can do that, or did you know that as well?
Do you care about the wife or is it just the principle of the thing??? Cheating is very wrong and people should get out of a relationship before moving on to someone else.
If I was you, and you really want to do this then leave a letter to the wife and give her what you know but don’t say who you are.
VERY intriguing isn’t it? Once our neighbors, whom I adored, were over heard arguing. He was drunk, we could hear it in his voice. He smacked her, and we heard her shout in pain, and cry. All got quiet then. and we thought he came to his senses and apologized to her. or she ran and locked herself away some where. Mind your own business was not what i was thinking that night, but my friend talked me out of dialing 911, saying, if he does it again, ok. He never yelled again, and all got quiet. Its easy to just turn away. I was so shocked and I looked at our neighbors differently next time, with more depth. There is so much so many keep hidden. For a good reason.
You will feel the same way. I am sure.
For now, keep this to yourself. It may have just been……conspicuous looking…
Ky,
He may be cheating, or a terrorist, a cia operative…you should stay away from him, he might shoot you in the eye with one of his cufflink dart guns!
I think you should probably bow out until you hear him say he’s leaving his wife for her, or that he can’t wait to meet her at motel 6. and then still do nothing.
If you hear a big commotion, it will be his wife who found out, then if she confides in you, tell her you had suspicions and comfort her.
Other than that, really you are diving into the unknown…I mean what if he’s planning a suprise with her sister for a party event?
Wally
WTF are you jealous? You wanted some and see him getting it elsewhere so it slims your chances. Why don’t you go join the PTA or some crap if you got enough time to be an ol bitty minding everybody’s business but your own.