I can’t stop my wife from cheating on me, what should I do?
My religion forbids that I get a divorce. My wife constantly cheats on me, she even tells me about it. I ask her to stop and honor our union but she has really turned into a vindictive soul. I would like to get my own house away from her but I think that is even against my wedding vows. What should I do?
Just to clarify, I am forbidden to divorce in my religion. I am not changing my religion because I am keeping my faith. Thanks.
I do not think you guys understand. Even if adultery is forbidden in my religion that does not mean I can get a divorce. Two wrongs do not make a right, to be simplistic. She can break the rules as much as she wants. I do not play that game.
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You can live apart without getting a divorce. It’s called being separated. Being alone is better than being in a hellish marriage,
Get a more practical religion.
Huh, I wonder what you did to piss her off so bad. Can’t you get an anulment?
I’m Catholic, it’s also forbidden for us to divorce but at some point you’ve got to let go of the religion and use some common sense!
ADD: Even thought I was not allowed to divorce in my religion I did it anyway! You don’t need your religion permission to divorce your wife in a court of law. I am still Catholic except I am a sinful Catholic…..I chose to live in sin instead of living in that hell that was my marriage. I’m sure your religion does not approve of infidelity, yet your wife doesn’t let that stop her!
u are the first person with this kind of problem
Well if you are against divorce, just separate permanently.
And get tested for STDs in the meantime.
There comes a point when those wedding vows are not as important anymore. This would be that point. If you have asked her to stop and she won’t then it’s time for you to move out and move on. I understand the religion part of it but you need to protect and respect yourself first.
I wanted to add to this. I understand 2 wrongs don’t make a right but why should you have to suffer in your relationship with a woman who clearly doesn’t want to be married any longer and hurts you every chance she gets!? I would look into the fine print of your religion. I do very much understand keeping your faith but come on you need to do what is going to make you happy. It’s just not fair or right that she gets to cheat all over the place and you just have to deal with it.
its to many dieases in this world to be cheating on people or since u cant get a divorce go to counseling
Your stuck between a rock and hard place. You will have to stick it out. Or join in.
I feel sorry for you. Cheating and adultery are legit reasons to divorce a person. Sad that your religion "forbids" it. Even in Jewish/Christianity divorce is allowed in certain circumstances - one of which IS adultery.
so what if its agents your religion leave her!!!! some times you just have to make sacrifices
ok i dont know what religion is against divorce when someone goes outside of the marriage, but if that is the case there is nothing you can do to stop here. She obviously doesnt give a rats a@@ asbout breaking her wedding vows. I serioulsy serioulsy doubt that if you go talk to your spirtual adviser that they would tell you, not to divorce her. why dont you ask about getting the marriaged annulled. it will be like it never happened.
good luck.
does your religion allows cheating ?? what does your logic tells you ?
Get a divorce already. GL.
if she tells u about then that means she is not scare to cheat and as long as u stay with her she will con tined to cheat and laughter behind your back leave her
man, what happened to your balls? I cannot believe you do not have control over your marriage. You wife is cheating on you, to make matters worse she is telling you and embarrasing you. YOU ARE A WIMP! That is why she is getting away with it. You have to show some kind of dominance over her. A lot of women do not admit it, but you have to be controlling.
I doubt your religion approves of adultery either. Ask your religious leader how to handle the situation, since you seem to desire living your life by that dogma. If s/he says suck it up and accept it then so be it.
I wouldn’t stay married to anyone who would disrespect me that way. Any religion that says you have to tolerate it, doesn’t care much about its followers.
i would talk to your priest or whom ever is the head of the church they can offer a lot more advise, then go from there.
You both are clearly unhappy. Do yourself a favor, get a divorce or move out. Good luck…
There is no religion that I know of that says no divorce under any conditions. All the ones I know about adultery is grounds for divorce. So just dump the slut and find someone else to spend your life with.
Your wife has already broken your wedding vows. You are released from your obligation to her, as far as I am concerned.
Either change religions or suck it up. What other choices are there?
get her a collection plate and have them all contribute or they can mail it in if they wish to remain anonymous
Wow.. I suggest you leave her.
And if its your house, then kick her out. If she doesn’t want to leave, call the cops and get a restraining order. And accuse her of adultery.
that is tough. if you arent going to divorce her, i suggest you break your vows. nobody should have to deal with this and that is very noble to honor your religion that much, either get away from her or cheat on her i dont want to sound like a horrible person, but nobady deserves to go through that
Are you Christian? In the bible it says if one or the other breaks the sexual union that you are allowed to divorce. That’s the only religion/faith I know of that says you must stay married & even in that religion God says you can get out of it.
In this case, I think you should go before the church and your counsel there. You have to get out of this relationship. She’s using your religion to walk all over you and that’s not right. You have got to walk away from this situation before you become mean and vindictive. I’m pretty sure if the high counsel of your church knew the situation, you’d have their blessing to use what is given to us from our Higher Power….common sense.
Can you give me her #?
God wants his children to be happy. He doesn’t condone divorce, but in the matter of adultery, he makes an exception. No one deserves to be in a miserble, loveless marriage. For your own sanity and to keep your salvation, getting a divorce is the best option. You obviously take your faith quite seriously and you wife no longer shares the same values. She needs time to work out her problems alone with God.
My religion forbids divorce too; however, my bible says that if adultery is committed, the marriage is over anyway. My religion says that adultery is the only reason for divorce.
I understand where you are coming from with your religion, my religion is very important to me too. But you have to also protect yourself; she could bring a disease home to you. Maybe you should just leave her and get your own apartment or something, but not divorce her. Maybe she is only doing it because she doesn’t think you will leave her. But try scaring her by leaving without divorcing.
I don’t what religion you believe in, but I was raised in a Christian home which believed in what the Holy Bible said: Adultery was grounds for divorce. God said you had that right to divorce when came to that. Plus, think of this.. I know you love them and hope they’ll quit their evil ways.. meanwhile you are living a miserable life and are sad all the time because of it. They’re is someone out there that would love you as they should. Don’t put up with that.
man im sorry to say it, but sometimes a religion’s rules need to be bent or broken. If she keeps cheating on you its not your fault and you know that. But she has turned into a ‘vindictive soul’ as you call it and that it not the woman you once loved and married. Its going to keep ruining your life unless you do something and to me, divorce looks like the only option.
good luck
There is nothing you can do. So your best option is make the best out of your situation. Maybe you could let her bring her friends over and you could fix them drinks and dinner. That way you will appear like your in charge of what she does. And you never know, you may find that you like the position your in.
You are being stupid. She doesn’t love you! What so you are going to be alone for the rest of your life?
If you’re so dedicated to your religion then you can’t find you’re own girlfriend.
I think you are a gluten for punishment or you actually have a fetish for this sort of thing!
It sounds as if you are Catholic then adultery is reason for divorce.Get away from her and get your own place or stay with her in separate room and do not sleep with her so as not to contract some communicable disease.If i knew your faith i could help more.Talk to your religious leader.
Trust in God and hate evil not the evildoer and we shall pray for her and for Gods will to be done.YOU ARE A GOOD AND RARE MAN
Here, we have options that I am familiar with. All of those options are forbidden in your land, or either you’re too stubborn to take the necessary steps to STOP the agony you’re having. Either way, you’re stuck!
youre screwed
Happily, marriage laws in a democratic jurisdiction forbid the practice of female slavery your religion seems to actively promote. Your wife is free to seek a divorce simply because she wants one regardless of your views on the matter. She will also be entitled to a share of the assets of the marriage, again, regardless of your views on the matter. Nor is adultery any longer a bar to child custody. Even responsible sex addicts are routinely made custodial parents, so don’t imagine there is any moral argument to be made, either. Proof of anything beyond legal marriage is no longer required to divorce in a democracy.
just get a legal seperation.. if you want her back and know what your gonna do then go for it.. You being a baby. Put that whore in her place!
this is happening because you do not have God in your life, same as a lot of married couples, singles. They go though adultery,masturbation,abuse,hatred, rage, anger issues,pre-marital sex,divorce, financial problems, gambling, drinking, drug abuse….on and on.
But if they only said this simple prayer, and follow His rules, stop sinning,worship Him and Him alone(Father/ Jesus/Holy Spirit). only.
Then He will make your life and families life Heaven on Earth, He worries about all, He helps with all, He loves us so much it grieves me so much that people go to their graves without knowing His UNFAILING LOVE! GOD IS THE MOST AWESOME THING ANY HUMAN COULD EVER EVEN HOPE TO EXPERIENCE EVER!
I urge all families to all hold hands and ask together. : say this prayer
you will never regret it.
Put aside your unbelief and Say this prayer so God can come into your life, He is right there waiting, hoping You will make this choice & say it.
He has a plan for your life He can and will help you with everything. He wants you to be the best you can be. He loves you and gave You free will to choose having His unfailing love in your life or not He loved you first and left the door open for you. Its up to you to walk through into His loving arms.
God can help you, If only you ask Him.
If you want to accept Christ as Savior and turn from your sins, you can ask Him to be your Savior and Lord by praying a prayer like this:
"Lord Jesus, I believe You are the Son of God. Thank You for dying on the cross for my sins. Please forgive my sins and give me the gift of eternal life. I ask You in to my life and heart to be my Lord and Savior. I want to serve You always." Amen
He helped me and I want you to feel his Love too.
Then pass on this prayer to others so they can get to know Gods unfailing love too!
Pimp her out and get some of the cash. Good story, by the way.