What are the signs and what is the best way to find out if my Girlfriend of 4 years is cheating on me?
My Girlfriend and I are both 20 years old. we have have been together for about a little over 4 years. It has been 3 months since she has moved about 8 hrs away for school. I have know her for 8 years now and since then I have not had any reason not to trust her. Still I do not have any hard reason not to trust her, but recently my gut feeling for the first time is constantly telling me something..
(Just to give you a little description of me, so you can try to see it from her point of view)I am a good guy. I have a decent full time job and I am going to school. I am quality driven and goal oriented.I am very sweet towards her and i have never disrespected her. I am the father of my little brother. I help my Mother pay for some of the utility bills. I am very athletic. "yea anyways.. hopefully you’ll get my point"
I bought her a web cam so we can see each other while communicating. Just recently I have started to feel like there could possibly be someone else because of her lack of reassurance, communication, consideration towards me. I do know the passwords to her email addresses, Myspace and cellular account information. I still there are no signs of her cheating on me.. I know all the doors in her apartment and the sound it makes when it opens or closes. I sometimes would hear whispering on web cam and the front door shut or cluttering when she is on computer and her roommate is sleeping.. I ask her about it and she tells me that no one is there.. Of course, either way anyone would give the same response.. I do know that she is stressed with school and anything stress related that involves getting familiar with the new environment is stressing her out even more.
I am not receiving the attention that I would normally receive from her, her tolerance in resolving important issues has rapidly decreased.
I think sometimes i hear whispers and clutter ( HER MIC IS REALLY SENSITIVE TO SOUND), her lack of communication, reassurance and consideration has led me to feeling like she is cheating on me… OR is it cause she is stressed out from everything? what ever she is, Its pushing me away…
Please help me I really love her. I trust her but I am having doubts. Can someone please help me bye sharing their knowledge on this type of situation? Some signs and solutions and possibly even a previous experience and how it was handled would help me so much!
Thank you!
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just try to talk to her and tell her you want her to be honest! ask her if she is cheating on you! yeah straight to her face!!!!
atleast she knows you are not that dumb!
goodluck! ^__^
Stop worrying and learn to be happy.
Don’t do any such things which spoils your mind.
Either continue friendship or dump it once and for all.
well kid go with ur gut feeling but sometimes thats wrong so ask her , if u feel the same well after u 2 talk u know whats up ur young still an ‘LOVE’ is a BEEEITTCHH good luck
You\’re too young to negotiate these kinds of things. A long distance relationship is not going to survive at your age. Best to just end it on a high note.