How would you feel if your spouse’s ex wrote them out of the blue?…?
O.K. Here’s the story. My husband’s long, long time ago ex- girlfriend wrote a letter to him. I opened the letter as my husband was at work when we recieved the letter. It didn’t say anything out of the way and She really has no reason to communicate with him. He was very angry that she got our address from his supposed friend. He was even more angry with her because she showed signs of complete instability over the past. She tattooed his nickname on her arm 1 year after they seperated among other crazy things. When I told him he had recieved the letter, the first thing out of his mouth was I DON’T EVEN WANT TO KNOW!! He is completely loyal to me and cheating is not a problem here. I was just wondering how you all would feel if this were to happen to you.
Tool. Sorry you seem confused. He wasn’t angry in that way, He and I live away from the other place because of identity theft. People are not supposed to be giving out our 411. Plus, we just don’t need unstable people doing things that may influence or affect our children’s lives.
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I would feel bad for my husband for having to endure a stalker.
If he has that much of a problem with her file a restraining order against her and then she will go to jail if she contacts him further.
Ok, why was he angry? I don’t see the letter being a problem, and i for one would not care so much (about the letter); but what I would care about is that he reacted so strongly. To me that would me on some level she is very much a part of him on the inside. Unless there was some horrible act of injustice that you did not mention. He’s mad at her instability? Who cares? Do you mean instability to him? If that’s the case then he still harbors pain and is not completely over it or her. This would be my concern.
Talk it out. He’s your husband. You should be able to tell if there is still pain lingering. You should take care of it because you don’t know how it can manifest otself over the many years to come!
Good Luck!
Rolo! I never had an ex, but if I had then I’d probably feel surprised, embarrassed, blushing! Jimmy.
I would think nothing of it unless my husband was acting suspicious about it.