Archive for September, 2009
If you look for something hard enough you will begin to believe you’ve found it. If you look for signs that your car’s going to break down, you’ll start hearing rattles and sqeaks. If you look for signs of a cheating spouse, those telemarketing calls that hang up on your answering machine will take on a sinister quality. See where this is going? If you look for racist meaning behind every word or action, you’ll find it. Even when it’s not really there to be found.
I have reason to believe my wife may be cheating on me. What do I look for?
My friend heard so many rumors about her husband while he was deployed and this has lead her to feel really insecure.
My mom thinks my dad is cheating on her. They have had a good marriage for about 30 years. Now, there is this girl he works with that he was on the phone with for like an hour when he got home about a month ago and since then he has come home late a few times (like 4 am) and is always on the phone outside and always texting when he never used to. Also he only texts & calls on his work phone. and he is buying new clothes/shoes/glasses/motorcycle EVERYTHING! Ever since then, him and my mom have been super distance and its just awkward for them to be around each other. She is planning on to get a detective to see if he really is but she is not sure.
Would you think your spouse would be cheating on you if they did this to you?
Can’t snoop, its on his work phone and he takes it EVERYWHERE, if its not on him then its on the table on lock mode so nobody can get into it.
