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Really I dont even know where to beging. I have no one really to talk to, because my best friend, the only one that I could talk to, we arent getting along anymore, and I’m not "that" close with my friends. Anyway for a few months now I have just been having a gut feeling that my husband of almost 2 years is cheating. I love him dearly and I try my best to make him feel important and loved, but lately it feels like its not good enough. I’m a stay at home mom to a 2 yrld old and pregnant again with baby #2. I clean, I cook, i let him hang out with his friends, or let his friends come over anytime he wants, and i know this is tmi but he even gets it "sex" anytime he wants. And he ALWAYS acts satisfied after. But lately he has been coming home later, says he’s working late, he always tries to start a fuss with me, and i’m always the blame, and as soon as he does come home he goes straight to playing his xbox til like 12 or 1 at night. He doesnt even play with our 2 yld tht much, and i never thought he wld had been like tht with our children, cause his daddy left him as a baby, and my daddy was not good to me at all growing up. I just feel so broken, i love him more than life itself, and i wld do anything to have it back to the way it use to be. But i honestly think he has something going on with a girl at his work. but i have no proof, other than following my heart.

btw; this may be a dead give away that he is cheating, and its another reason why i think he is, becos he is always tlkn ab doing a 3 sum, after i told him i wasnt interested in that. i want him and only him.

my questions is; what are some dead give aways that a man is cheating, how to catch them??
thank you all for you honest help. im glad i didnt get any negative feed back on my behalf because i feel like im not doing anything wrong to cause him for acting this way, however i seen where someone wrote, we should had been together and got to know each other before kids. We was together for 5 years before then. I guess after 5 years, we thought it was time for marriage, but i guess that was a BAD idea for how i feel.

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I just had the worst dream about him having sex right in front of me and afterwards he said sorry and expected me to not be jealous or throw it out of porportion. Ugh, this is making me feel really uneasy.
I wish he were here so I could punch him in the arm. LOL.

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Ok from what I’m about to tell you, please give me your honest opinion on whether or not you think he is cheating. We have been married only a few months, and we have spent about 10 days total of those three months together. He is in the military, and right now he is stationed somewhere that wives are not allowed to live because he is finishing up school. We were together for three years and he never cheated on me, and now I’m starting to worry that maybe he has… He parties ALL the time, gets drunk almost every night and goes to bars, hotel parties etc. He is very good looking and I know that he gets hit on (because it happens even when I’m around). I would hope that he could resist the temptation, but I know when you mix temptation and alcohol sometimes things happen…I know he loves me and he married me but I can’t help having these thoughts because he is so far away and I don’t know what he is doing all the time. Sometimes when he’s out he doesn’t answer his phone when I call, and he says the music was too loud he couldn’t hear it, etc. So, without knowing him I know it will be hard to say whether he is cheating or not, but just from what you know, what do you think?

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