Really I dont even know where to beging. I have no one really to talk to, because my best friend, the only one that I could talk to, we arent getting along anymore, and I’m not "that" close with my friends. Anyway for a few months now I have just been having a gut feeling that my husband of almost 2 years is cheating. I love him dearly and I try my best to make him feel important and loved, but lately it feels like its not good enough. I’m a stay at home mom to a 2 yrld old and pregnant again with baby #2. I clean, I cook, i let him hang out with his friends, or let his friends come over anytime he wants, and i know this is tmi but he even gets it "sex" anytime he wants. And he ALWAYS acts satisfied after. But lately he has been coming home later, says he’s working late, he always tries to start a fuss with me, and i’m always the blame, and as soon as he does come home he goes straight to playing his xbox til like 12 or 1 at night. He doesnt even play with our 2 yld tht much, and i never thought he wld had been like tht with our children, cause his daddy left him as a baby, and my daddy was not good to me at all growing up. I just feel so broken, i love him more than life itself, and i wld do anything to have it back to the way it use to be. But i honestly think he has something going on with a girl at his work. but i have no proof, other than following my heart.
btw; this may be a dead give away that he is cheating, and its another reason why i think he is, becos he is always tlkn ab doing a 3 sum, after i told him i wasnt interested in that. i want him and only him.
my questions is; what are some dead give aways that a man is cheating, how to catch them??
thank you all for you honest help. im glad i didnt get any negative feed back on my behalf because i feel like im not doing anything wrong to cause him for acting this way, however i seen where someone wrote, we should had been together and got to know each other before kids. We was together for 5 years before then. I guess after 5 years, we thought it was time for marriage, but i guess that was a BAD idea for how i feel.
