Ok so I’m really worried. My girlfriend’s 19 birthday is coming up (19 is the drinking age in my province) and her and her friend is going downtown and hitting the bars for a night and she doesn’t want me to go because I’m not 19 yet and she wants to party with her friend for her birthday. I am afraid of what she might do since shes going out and don’t want me there even if I’ve been to bars (illegally) with her before. She wants to meet me home after though. So what will she do? Should I be worried? Also she has never really done anything to hurt me before and I don’t usually worry but sometimes you can’t help it.
Archive for December, 2009
Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now. He wants sex but I told him to wait a while until I’m ready and am confortable with it. He said that he really needs to have sex because it’s something he wants and I can’t do it right now. A few days ago we got into a fight because of that and be said it’s not called cheating it’s called "fullfilling ur desires". I didn’t know what to say to him. He gets mad and when he gets mad he says a lot of stuff to make me mad. I’m over the fight now he said sorry but since he wanted sex so bad and I cudnt give it to him do u think he cheated on me to get sex? It’s killing me I need advice! I know for sure he loves me a lot, would a guy that really loves you cheat on you just for sex and won’t wait until you’re ready? After the fight I was very disturbed and he said he would never cheat on me. The only reason he asked for sex was because he needed me to say yes. He said that’s all I wanted to hear from you just a yes and I wouldn’t have bothered the topic again, I just needed to make sure u were willing to give me everything like how I gave to you<– that’s how his character is; he’s not low and im sure he wouldn’t cheat. But what do you guys think?
I know he says whatever comes to his mouth when he’s really angry and he doesn’t mean it; that’s just him. After the fight I also told him that if it makes him happy I’ll do it with him but he aaid no, all I need was a yes from you and now I have it. I just needed to be asured that ull give me all the love you have and now I’ll wait until you’re ready. He also said sorry that he says a lot of stupid stuff when he’s angry and he can’t control it and he need to get his anger out somehow. Does that decrease the chances a little?
I have seen this response on several cheating Q&A’s.
I thought more about it because a BF suspected her long time live in boyfriend was "deliberately" leaving things for her to find. Ex: cell with racy text (visible), email account up, box of unused condoms (that would disappear) lip stick on his collar (from colleague) - he would deny after she saw or read the proof then he would delete/remove evidence! He always had a lame excuse.She believe he wanted to sabotage the relationship MORE than him actually cheating.
Does anyone know of husbands doing this to get out of marriage?
This seems like very childish tactic to ending a relationship or a marriage! Would a man or woman cop out so sneaky instead of owning the demise of the relationship?
edit: does anyone know of wives or husbands sabatoging relationship as an exit plan?
I have a few question i needed to know:
1) What does a dream about your boyfriend cheating on you mean?
2) If you ask your boyfriend "if you gave him a chance to cheat would he" and his answer was i don’t know?
3) If you feel so insecure about yourself because your afraid he might cheat on you?
4) If you had a feeling he cheated on you before but you dont really know if it is true?
5) How do you know if he wants to spend his life with you or if he is just using you?
